Wednesday, July 28, 2010

What's the best advice you can give someone who's getting married?

Not about the wedding... about the actual marriageWhat's the best advice you can give someone who's getting married?
go into it with the mindset that it is forever and you will do whatever it takes to make it work. if you even entertain the idea that divorce is an option - chances are, down the road, it will become one. other than that (sorry about it being so heavy!) have fun with eachother and enjoy eachother - remind yourself every day of why you are with him :)What's the best advice you can give someone who's getting married?
DON';T DO IT!!!!!!


Marriage is highway robbery. You stress out for months, spending a crap load of money for ONE DAY and ONE VACATION. The dresses get shoved in a closet, the flowers die, the DJ goes on to other gigs, and all you get is a piece of paper. Then a few years down the road you stress out for months or years and lose even MORE money to get another peice of paper to cancel out the first one. Go to Word, make your own little peice of paper proclaiming your love and sign THAT. Have a party in your back yard and go ona vacation...You dont need it to be called a honeymoon to spend a week in bed. There is NOTHING you cant do together that you can do married except file taxes under MARRIED. Even thats a joke bc you really DONT get more money back that way. Girls can even change thier last name without having to get married for 300 bucks if you want to take his name.
if you do it...watch out cause there's a bunch of risks when you marry someone,the man thinks he ';own';you!!!! well mine does...


if he's actually not the type that would change,after you 2 get married and you are positive in that,in which i was with mine....well you better just stay together...don't bother with paperwork...you know marriage....it sucks!!! my husband and i we're together for 6 years and we recently tied the knot on oct.of last year...and honey he's turned a complete 360 on me,i wish i didn't marry him cause of that...but other than that,i wish ya luck!
If the two of you can tell each other anything , and I do mean anything and everything , without fear of criticism or


judgment , then nothing will ever come


between you , EVER !!





It builds trust and respect and keeps communication open and growing , thus , ever lasting love will flow !
Compromise!!!! Marriage is very hard and you have to work at it everyday, it is no longer a me situation but us and you'll have to give as much as you get. Also you must always talk dont think that anything will go away if you ignore it cause it will just cause a big fight later.
Honest communication and mutual respect.





Treat your spouse the way you would want your spouse to treat you!!!!
Respect each other's privacy. Support each other in time of need. Too much jealousy can kill. Loyalty is on top of the list.....and do not criticize in public.
HOLD ON TIGHT!!! IT'S GONNA BE A BUMPY RIDE. BUT IT'S WORTH IT.
don't do it!
get a prenup

What's the Best Advice you've ever been given?

Just curious?What's the Best Advice you've ever been given?
Don't lie











Have nice day! :)What's the Best Advice you've ever been given?
Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as you can. [John Wesley]
Respect yourself and others will respect you too !
do the best that you can.
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  • What is the best advice you ever received from some one, but you didn't take?

    Why do you think now it was the best?What is the best advice you ever received from some one, but you didn't take?
    ppl told me to stay out of trouble did i listen?no i had to be hard headed and go and mess my life up. my advice is to stay out of trouble and dont get caught in the wrong crowd. good luckWhat is the best advice you ever received from some one, but you didn't take?
    Long ago and far away, when I was 26, from a dentist who


    wanted to fill and cap my upper teeth, instead of pull them


    for a denture, he even offered me long term payments, no


    interest. funds were short in those days, so I went the cheaper route, But you better believe no dentist will get my


    lowers! My Dad at the time told me the same thing, but he offered no help $$$. Amen.
    don't get married!!! (nah jk)





    they said to listen more than I talk! and I have done it and it really makes things easier!
    Don't marry that girl
    don't worry.





    b/c life is too short. and im going to give myself an ulcer.
    Stay away from him,he's no good!! My mom and dad told me this.


    I didn't listen and ended up getting married which was a mistake.


    He made me miserable for many years.
    Let her go........








    Cuz she hurt me worse then the first time...
    look before you leap...i was very young when i got married the first time and now i waited 17 years to do it again but this time i got it RIGHT...
    don't smoke...cuz it is baaaad
    hmm, I've gotten a lot of advice i should have taken but the biggest? i guess that would be when i was told to ''say no to drugs'' a long time ago in school but i did it anyway. but i have been drug free for 11 years now.
    Don't get married. My husband turned out to be the jackass everyone around me saw, but I never saw it until it was too late.
    DON'T SHOOT! All I had to do was just break his legs, and I wouldn't be writing this from prison.
    To Matriculate at Mayo Medical School instead of a State School which was waiving potential scholarships in my face, but never went through with it. The entering class consisted on only 32 or so MD track students, and the Mayo Clinic is one of the finest, most highly regarded institutions in the country with centers not only in Minnesota but Florida and Arizona as well.

    Best advice?

    What is the best advice you ever recieved and what's the best advice you ever gaveBest advice?
    i can sum that up in one answer:





    ';CRY YOURSELF A RIVER, BUILD A BRIDGE, AND GET OVER IT!!!';





    go on and marinate on that.Best advice?
    The best advise that i recieved was '; If u commit a mistake, Learn from it and try not to repeat it and if u do so then ur the biggest FOOL';.....and best advise that i ever gave was '; S**t happens, Life Goes on...it doesn't stop for any one so just move on ';

    Hello wise people, what is you best advice for hair loss? Need some good help. Come from Denmark.?

    ive tried some things against hair loss, but i need some good advice that can help, please give me as much answers as possible.Hello wise people, what is you best advice for hair loss? Need some good help. Come from Denmark.?
    nair... put it in you're shampooHello wise people, what is you best advice for hair loss? Need some good help. Come from Denmark.?
    I've always thought, if i go bald when I'm older it's better to just accept that I'm bald and shave it down short. Hair implants look fake, wigs look ridiculous and ';Combing it over'; is self degrading
    U where not real specific in your question if u want hair to grow back I would try rograine for men or woman. Nair for hair removal burns like hell so dont put it in your shampoo unless u want your eyebrows to fall off too. Another my great grandpa was balding and he stopped wearing hats, and he brushed his hair everyday and it helped it grow back. Something to try, if u want to loose hair, then I suggest shaving it off if u are talking about the hair on your head. the rest mayb wax the hair comes back softer instead of like a beard all pokey and stuff. Good luck u might want to expand your question.
    check the links below for natural homemade beauty tips to:-- Hairloss/Hairfall


    http://geebal.blogspot.com/2006/08/natur鈥?/a>





    Vitamins for Hair Loss/growth


    http://geebal.blogspot.com/2007/10/vitam鈥?/a>





    Modern hairloss treatments


    http://geebal.blogspot.com/2007/10/hair-鈥?/a>





    Natural Homemade Tips for Hair %26amp; Skin


    http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-42eT_e8_b鈥?/a>
    bald is beautifl
    Shave; bold is neat. It turns them on.
    Well if they sell it in Denmark or I am sure you can get it on ebay, Nioxin is very good. Using the cleanser/scalptherapy which is shampoo/conditioner and scalp treatment works well. They also have a follicle booser and supplements that I am told work well.





    Hope this helps!!
    shave it off.
    All I can do is suggest what has worked for me:





    Below you will read of multiple approaches to tackling the dilemma of hair loss. I personally went through a program that utilized nearly all of these techniques, all on-going at the same time. That program cost me $1600 for the 6 month program. Lucky you gets this info for FREE!








    First of all, either you need to have strong evidence of hair loss on yourself, or a fairly strong family history of it. None of these products or techniques will grow thicker hair than you have historically had, nor will produce new hair in areas you never had hair before. The sooner you begin, the greater %26amp; quicker the results. Women generally see greater and quicker results.





    Disclaimer: As with any product or technique, everyone has different and unique health predispositions. Always consult a physician before undertaking any of these products or techniques if you have or may have a history of allergies to any, or are under a doctor's care utilizing over-the-counter or prescription drugs, as interactions (contraindications ) may occur which can be detrimental to your health.





    Internal:


    The herb of Saw Palmetto: Generally suggested to men for prostrate health, women can take this herb with no complications. This is taken as a DHT inhibitor. DHT is the natural occurring hormone we produce to lose hair.


    Biotin: This is from the B-Vitamin family. It accelerates hair growth.





    External / Topical:


    Minoxidil: Men - 5%, Women - not over 2%. Found in most products (like Rogain) advertised for hair loss regrowth. You can purchase it under it's true name - Minoxidil - through the internet (ebay). Strong precautions in use of this product. Once you take it, it will become a part of your life, as if you decide to stop taking it, the hair will regain it's original state, and you will lose all of the hair you regained.





    Natural Shampoos %26amp; Conditioners: Try the natural food or product stores. These products will not build up on your scalp and ';suffocate'; the follicles. I use the product Equalizing Shampoo by Hair Solutions (Step 1), 12 oz. (*NOTE) The Conditioner is under the name of Bio Harmonix Lite Rinse Conditioner with Sun Screen (Step 3), 10.6 oz. through LH Technologies, Boca Raton, Fl 33431, phone 888-446-3747. Then, (Step 2) is the Hair and Scalp Live Enzyme Cleanser, 11 oz. (*NOTE) The enzyme product will help to strip the old buildup off of the scalp and hair. I originally used these products exclusively, but came across the product below that I use WITH the above mentioned Step1,2,3 products. See explanation below.





    (*NOTE) The company I used was closed down or went out of business per BBB on May 2, 2006. The products they sold are still available, though, thru the original distributor. I was told that the products can be ordered via phone 1-888-446-3747 or the website:


    www.harmonixhairsolutions.com





    Conditioner:


    These are horse-care products that I have taken to replace using Minoxidil. Have not looked back: It is called Mega-Tek Rebuilder, 16 oz. By Eqyss Grooming Products.


    The outside of the bottle reads: ';Eqyss Grooming Product's Mega-Tek Equine Rebuilder. Thicker Fuller Longer Mane %26amp; Tails. Coat Blanket rubs disappear. Hoof...';It is labeled suitable for human use. It re-grows hair on horses where tack can rub the hair off of the coat.


    Here is a direct link:


    http://www.shop.store.yahoo.com/eqyss-on鈥?/a>





    I use the Eqyss Mega-Tek Rebuilder directly on my scalp every time I shampoo (2-3x per wk). Then I place my regular conditioner on the hairs as they are distanced from the scalp. I leave it in while I finish washing, giving it some time to be absorbed. Then I rinse it out. I have had no problems with it. Some people elect to not wash the Eqyss conditioner out, but I do. People have noticed that after a while the hair not only thickens, less hair evidenced going down the drain, but the hair can become ';brittle'; to the touch. That is why I also utilize the other conditioner, and that has helped alleviate that for the most part, along with using the LaserComb.





    It's shampoo mate is called the Eqyss Premier Color Intensifying Shampoo I believe that it is the same as their ';Eqyss Premier Natural Botanical Equine Shampoo, Conditioner %26amp; Moisterizer, PH Balanced, Enhances Color, High Gloss %26amp; Shine'; which is the exact reading on the bottle of the product I use. The size is 22 oz., and it runs around $16-18. I use it in conjunction with the conditioner - every time I wash my hair.





    Hairbrushes:


    Boar Bristle brushes are the most gentle, and tend to not break hair off. A 100% boar bristle brush may not be your preference, since it does not pull on the hair shaft, and to the inexperienced user, it is like turning the brush backwards and brushing with the handle portion - you feel like you are NOT brushing your hair...but with experience, you will learn the ';touch and feel'; of the bristles gliding through your hair. It's that gentle. You can instead elect to buy a brush that has nylon or other type bristles mixed with the boar bristle, but remember that you will continue to break off hairs using nylon or any other material. The Boar Bristle brush not only keeps down the hair breakage, but it also more freely distributes the natural oils you have on your scalp. If you wash your hair often, this will not be an issue. It also will bring shine to your hair.


    There are new brushes out on the market that are ';ion'; based, using a negative charged plate attached to the brush to help keep static out of hair and keep natural moisture in the hair shaft. I have not tried this product, so I can not testify as to it's merit. I keep static out of my hairbrush by just running it under the water tap. And remember to keep your brush clean and free from debris.


    In addition to ';ion'; brushes, there are also ionic hair dryers. I did purchase an 850 watt travel dryer. The manufacturer claims that the hair shaft will somehow not splinter or dry out; claims that the moisture will be somehow sealed back within the hair shaft. In my experience, all I noticed is that the ionic dryers run incredibly hot-burning your scalp, if you aren't careful. I would suggest NOT using an ionic dryer on children, the elderly, or anyone who can not adequately communicate with you that the dryer is causing them discomfort. My hairdresser concurs with my observation. Treat it as a very hot hairdryer, maintaining a generous distance from dryer to subject. The further away, the better, and use to a minimum.





    And lastly, the most expensive product - and it DOES work:


    The Laser Comb. It is a cool laser with a red diode that you gently, very very slowly comb across your scalp. Usually 15 minutes a session for 2-3x per week. Overuse will render it less effective, and it may begin to undo your hard work. I have kept with the original Laser Comb company (Lexington HairMax) because I am confident with it's quality and integrity. I purchased mine directly from the manufacturer, although you can bid for it on Ebay. The laser comb will do this: Thicken up your scalp (you will need to be patient - takes sometimes 3 full months before results are seen) and little baby fuzz will begin to grow, which will change over to small hairs, then fuller, longer hairs. Next good thing about it is that your scalp will feel like it received a great stimulating massage. It will feel tingly and warm like your scalp is ';alive';. And the sensation can last almost a full day. Another nice thing is that your hair will lighten up in color a bit, but it will begin to soften, become silky to the feel. The hair will feel cooler to the touch, thicker, stronger, more manageable. It will become more shiny and have the ';healthy'; look and glow that you see with children and teens hair. I paid $600 plus shipping for mine when I purchased it Fall of 2003. Here is your link to the one I own:





    http://www.lasercomb.net/default.aspx





    Filtered Water: Some people elect to do a final rinse with purified water. Some have special filters on their showerhead that remove chlorine and other chemicals.





    What do I use today?


    Lexington HairMax Laser Comb


    Boar Bristle Brush


    Eqyss Shampoo and Conditioner


    Harmonix' brand Shampoo %26amp; Conditioner and their Enzyme spray - periodically


    Saw Palmetto supplemental herb (a by-product of this herb is that it helps with depression, so I continue to use under that primary premise)





    My hair loss started slow. I had to clean out the tub drain about every 6 months. Then, I was having to clean it out every time I showered. My hairdresser commented that I needed to change the part on my scalp because I was thinning on one side. Eek! I began to count, yes count the hairs, and when I started the program, I would average 380 per washing, and now, maybe 80. I stopped coloring my hair.





    I found a hair catcher basket at Home Depot that was made of latex rubber that could be placed over or inside the drain hole. You may want to do that to monitor your progress. Keep some beginning samples and set aside, then try a few after one month, two, three months. You should notice a big change, determined by how severely you were loosing your hair. It starts as a little fuzz, like the down on a bird, then the hair folicle is baby fine, then it thickens to be like a regular shaft of hair. You will see it starting to work when the ';peach fuzz'; starts sprouting on the scalp. Then you will know that it's working! The fuzz will drop out, and new baby hairs will take on. Keep up with what techniques you are applying, or everything will reverse.





    My results were wonderful, my hair is healthier, shiny %26amp; thicker. I don't have to spend 5 extra minutes in my shower each time, picking at the stray hairs that would wind up all over the place and drive me crazy.





    Good Luck. It will take patience %26amp; committment. The sooner, the better will be the results.





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