What's the best advice you can give someone who's getting married?

Not about the wedding... about the actual marriageWhat's the best advice you can give someone who's getting married?
go into it with the mindset that it is forever and you will do whatever it takes to make it work. if you even entertain the idea that divorce is an option - chances are, down the road, it will become one. other than that (sorry about it being so heavy!) have fun with eachother and enjoy eachother - remind yourself every day of why you are with him :)What's the best advice you can give someone who's getting married?
DON';T DO IT!!!!!!


Marriage is highway robbery. You stress out for months, spending a crap load of money for ONE DAY and ONE VACATION. The dresses get shoved in a closet, the flowers die, the DJ goes on to other gigs, and all you get is a piece of paper. Then a few years down the road you stress out for months or years and lose even MORE money to get another peice of paper to cancel out the first one. Go to Word, make your own little peice of paper proclaiming your love and sign THAT. Have a party in your back yard and go ona vacation...You dont need it to be called a honeymoon to spend a week in bed. There is NOTHING you cant do together that you can do married except file taxes under MARRIED. Even thats a joke bc you really DONT get more money back that way. Girls can even change thier last name without having to get married for 300 bucks if you want to take his name.
if you do it...watch out cause there's a bunch of risks when you marry someone,the man thinks he ';own';you!!!! well mine does...


if he's actually not the type that would change,after you 2 get married and you are positive in that,in which i was with mine....well you better just stay together...don't bother with paperwork...you know marriage....it sucks!!! my husband and i we're together for 6 years and we recently tied the knot on oct.of last year...and honey he's turned a complete 360 on me,i wish i didn't marry him cause of that...but other than that,i wish ya luck!
If the two of you can tell each other anything , and I do mean anything and everything , without fear of criticism or


judgment , then nothing will ever come


between you , EVER !!





It builds trust and respect and keeps communication open and growing , thus , ever lasting love will flow !
Compromise!!!! Marriage is very hard and you have to work at it everyday, it is no longer a me situation but us and you'll have to give as much as you get. Also you must always talk dont think that anything will go away if you ignore it cause it will just cause a big fight later.
Honest communication and mutual respect.





Treat your spouse the way you would want your spouse to treat you!!!!
Respect each other's privacy. Support each other in time of need. Too much jealousy can kill. Loyalty is on top of the list.....and do not criticize in public.
HOLD ON TIGHT!!! IT'S GONNA BE A BUMPY RIDE. BUT IT'S WORTH IT.
don't do it!
get a prenup