I have been employed and ';enslaved'; for the last 10 years (I'm 27). However, from the very beginning I have witnessed ';work drama'; no matter how menial the job. I have learned a lot from my experiences and have managed to grow from them, but I'd love to hear how other people have dealt with conflict in the work place, and learned from it.Best advice in worst situation (about work)?
When situations are happening to someone else, it is better to keep our comments to ourselves. If you made a mistake, admit it, and then learn from it. I deal with every bad experience as the step that will take me to sucess later on in life.Best advice in worst situation (about work)?
Hi, I quit a job about a year ago because of conflict at work, I just couldn't deal with a certain indivual whom I thought was a friend and I confided in that person, only to have, what I though was conservation between the two of us told to other.Now I have a new job that I love but I have also learned to keep my mouth shut about my personal life and also to listen to others with deaf ears, in other words let what people say to you about other, go in one ear and out the other.Oh, and always do your best no matter how much other may try to slack. I know this may sound like sometimes, it seem that you are doing all the work while other get the same pay as you are for goofing off, but if there is ever a lay off. Guess who will be the first to go.
In work places, it's our mouth that is normally causing all the trouble, so try to be very carefull about what you say, and if you have some personal comments on other people, keep it to your self.
If you have the option to move to another job, then it would be better, however, you have to be much more prepared for your new job.
';See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil';.
I work with a lady who has this Thing with authority! It's her way or the highway. It becomes very difficult to show my strengths when I'm told she's in control and I am her subordinate.
After many months of just about harassment I've come to the realization I'm pounding my head against the wall. So now I just do what she wants me to and say yes mam.
Don't get me wrong, I still hate it but I've put in for a lateral move and I'm just waiting for that to take place.
Good luck
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Please advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
Hi Im planning to replace my old nokia mobile and switch over to a new nokia mobile. I need a Nokia mobile with the following specifications at a normal cost 2.0Mp camera, FM,bluetooth? My budget is around 8k.Also advice if there are any other good mobile phones available in the market with the same specifications and as friendly as Nokia?Please advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
planPlease advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
Nokia 6300 , price 8K
Nokia's slogan for the 6300 is ';Simply beautiful - beautifully simple.'; The beauty comes from the sleek, classic design with stainless-steel surfaces, and the simplicity reflects the fact that this is an all-round kind of phone: not a smartphone, not 3G, but including all of the functionality that most people want. Sounds like a winner! Could Nokia finally be getting back to what it used to do best - a phone that does just what you want and does it well?
Certainly the phone looks good when you pick it up. It's like the early 6-series Nokia's: exclusive- and expensive-looking, practically designed with a good sized screen and functional keypad, yet updated for 2007 with a 5-way navigation button and high quality colour display. The size is perfect: it's very slim (just 11.7mm) and not too wide, and the weight is enough to make it feel solid and substantial, but not so much that it feels heavy. The keypad is a decent size and is easy to use. The display is exceptional: a high resolution 240 x 320 pixel display with an amazing 16 million colours. On the outside the 6300 ticks all the right boxes.
On the inside, the phone is equipped with all the features that a typical user would expect. The camera is 2 megapixels with an 8x digital zoom and with a video recording function. Enough for casual photography, but not brilliant. There's a music player and an FM radio. A standard Nokia headset is included in the sales package and support for a Bluetooth stereo headset is included. Memory for storing music is limited, with just 7.8 Mbytes of user memory, however you can expand the memory to a maximum of 2 Gbytes by buying a microSD card, which will give you as much memory as an iPod Nano. Both Bluetooth and USB connectivity are supported, and the phone has GPRS and EDGE for fast data downloads. Battery life is excellent. The user interface is a standard Series 40 interface, that Nokia users will be used to, but with the latest enhancements. It's basically a very easy phone to use, with everything well thought out and some real attention to detail.
This is our favourite Nokia phone for a long time. It really is beautiful - quality just oozes out of the phone when you pick it up. The metallic finish completes the look, although this may show scratches if not treated carefully. Ergonomics and user-friendliness are good. The strange thing is that Nokia built their reputation with phones like this, but what have they been doing these past few years with their funky but unusable fashion-phones and their buggy brick-like smartphones? Welcome back Nokia! It was worth the wait!
Still not convinced? Here's a fact: the 6300 is the only Nokia phone ever to be rated 5 stars by our users (out of 100 reviews in total). So what are you waiting for? Go buy it! You can already find some fantastic deals online for the 6300. For instance Dialaphone are offering the 6300 free at less than half-price line rental and with a choice of free gifts ranging from a free memory card to an LCD TV. You'll probably find that a deal like this works out better than upgrading on your existing contract. On Pay as you Go you can pick up the 6300 from the Carphone Warehouse for just 拢79.95, which seems like a fantastic deal for such a good phone.
Features of the Nokia 6300 include:
* 2 megapixel camera with 8x digital zoom
* Video camera (176 x 144 pixels)
* Display: TFT, 16.7 million colours, 240 x 320 pixels (2 inches)
* Music player (MP3, MP4, AAC, AAC+, eAAC+, H.263, H.264 formats)
* FM stereo radio with Visual Radio
* Integrated loudspeaker
* Voice commands and voice recording
* MP3 ringtones, 64-voice polyphonic ringtones, video ringtones
* Messaging: SMS, MMS, email, Instant messaging, Nokia Xpress audio messaging
* Push to talk
* Java games
* Personal organiser with calendar, To-do list, and notes
* Contacts (up to 1000)
* Alarm clock and countdown timer (normal and interval timer)
* Memory: 7.8 Mbytes plus microSD card slot (expandable up to 2 Gbytes)
* Connectivity: Bluetooth 2.0, USB
* Flight mode
* WAP, GPRS Class 10, EDGE
* XHTML web browser
* Vibration alert
* Triband
* Size: 106 x 43 x 12 mm
* Weight: 91g
* Talktime: 3.5 hours
* Battery standby: up to 14.5 days (350 hours)
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planPlease advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
Nokia 6300 , price 8K
Nokia's slogan for the 6300 is ';Simply beautiful - beautifully simple.'; The beauty comes from the sleek, classic design with stainless-steel surfaces, and the simplicity reflects the fact that this is an all-round kind of phone: not a smartphone, not 3G, but including all of the functionality that most people want. Sounds like a winner! Could Nokia finally be getting back to what it used to do best - a phone that does just what you want and does it well?
Certainly the phone looks good when you pick it up. It's like the early 6-series Nokia's: exclusive- and expensive-looking, practically designed with a good sized screen and functional keypad, yet updated for 2007 with a 5-way navigation button and high quality colour display. The size is perfect: it's very slim (just 11.7mm) and not too wide, and the weight is enough to make it feel solid and substantial, but not so much that it feels heavy. The keypad is a decent size and is easy to use. The display is exceptional: a high resolution 240 x 320 pixel display with an amazing 16 million colours. On the outside the 6300 ticks all the right boxes.
On the inside, the phone is equipped with all the features that a typical user would expect. The camera is 2 megapixels with an 8x digital zoom and with a video recording function. Enough for casual photography, but not brilliant. There's a music player and an FM radio. A standard Nokia headset is included in the sales package and support for a Bluetooth stereo headset is included. Memory for storing music is limited, with just 7.8 Mbytes of user memory, however you can expand the memory to a maximum of 2 Gbytes by buying a microSD card, which will give you as much memory as an iPod Nano. Both Bluetooth and USB connectivity are supported, and the phone has GPRS and EDGE for fast data downloads. Battery life is excellent. The user interface is a standard Series 40 interface, that Nokia users will be used to, but with the latest enhancements. It's basically a very easy phone to use, with everything well thought out and some real attention to detail.
This is our favourite Nokia phone for a long time. It really is beautiful - quality just oozes out of the phone when you pick it up. The metallic finish completes the look, although this may show scratches if not treated carefully. Ergonomics and user-friendliness are good. The strange thing is that Nokia built their reputation with phones like this, but what have they been doing these past few years with their funky but unusable fashion-phones and their buggy brick-like smartphones? Welcome back Nokia! It was worth the wait!
Still not convinced? Here's a fact: the 6300 is the only Nokia phone ever to be rated 5 stars by our users (out of 100 reviews in total). So what are you waiting for? Go buy it! You can already find some fantastic deals online for the 6300. For instance Dialaphone are offering the 6300 free at less than half-price line rental and with a choice of free gifts ranging from a free memory card to an LCD TV. You'll probably find that a deal like this works out better than upgrading on your existing contract. On Pay as you Go you can pick up the 6300 from the Carphone Warehouse for just 拢79.95, which seems like a fantastic deal for such a good phone.
Features of the Nokia 6300 include:
* 2 megapixel camera with 8x digital zoom
* Video camera (176 x 144 pixels)
* Display: TFT, 16.7 million colours, 240 x 320 pixels (2 inches)
* Music player (MP3, MP4, AAC, AAC+, eAAC+, H.263, H.264 formats)
* FM stereo radio with Visual Radio
* Integrated loudspeaker
* Voice commands and voice recording
* MP3 ringtones, 64-voice polyphonic ringtones, video ringtones
* Messaging: SMS, MMS, email, Instant messaging, Nokia Xpress audio messaging
* Push to talk
* Java games
* Personal organiser with calendar, To-do list, and notes
* Contacts (up to 1000)
* Alarm clock and countdown timer (normal and interval timer)
* Memory: 7.8 Mbytes plus microSD card slot (expandable up to 2 Gbytes)
* Connectivity: Bluetooth 2.0, USB
* Flight mode
* WAP, GPRS Class 10, EDGE
* XHTML web browser
* Vibration alert
* Triband
* Size: 106 x 43 x 12 mm
* Weight: 91g
* Talktime: 3.5 hours
* Battery standby: up to 14.5 days (350 hours)
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What is the best advice for a pageant.?
Pageant videographer here.
If you do talent, please choose a performance piece that is within your current capabilities and execute it flawlessly. I have seen many contestants ruin their chances in a pageant because they took on a grand piece which they could not quite deliver. A mistake in a performance piece is very hard for you to deal with emotionally and your discomfort will show all over your face if you try to perform beyond your capabilities and screw up. Mistakes are, unfortunately, much easier to remember than success. Do something that you can do perfectly so there is nothing negative to remember. You want to look confident and truly enjoy everything you do, even if that means scaling back your ambition a bit to do so.
Good luck!
WKWhat is the best advice for a pageant.?
Do it for fun and not for the money or the title. Too many young women get hurt by not winning. Take it seriously, but not too seriously.What is the best advice for a pageant.?
Smile a lotttttttttttttttt
Be careful with your belongings, I've heard stories of girls ripping dresses and hiding shoes and all this other sneaky stuff.
dont mention saving children around the world...
If you do talent, please choose a performance piece that is within your current capabilities and execute it flawlessly. I have seen many contestants ruin their chances in a pageant because they took on a grand piece which they could not quite deliver. A mistake in a performance piece is very hard for you to deal with emotionally and your discomfort will show all over your face if you try to perform beyond your capabilities and screw up. Mistakes are, unfortunately, much easier to remember than success. Do something that you can do perfectly so there is nothing negative to remember. You want to look confident and truly enjoy everything you do, even if that means scaling back your ambition a bit to do so.
Good luck!
WKWhat is the best advice for a pageant.?
Do it for fun and not for the money or the title. Too many young women get hurt by not winning. Take it seriously, but not too seriously.What is the best advice for a pageant.?
Smile a lotttttttttttttttt
Be careful with your belongings, I've heard stories of girls ripping dresses and hiding shoes and all this other sneaky stuff.
dont mention saving children around the world...
What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
I’ve certainly had my ups and downs in life, and my life has also been very public. I’ve always managed to hold my head high, and picked myself up, dusted myself off, and found the courage to start again. Love and support from family and friends has carried me through my toughest times, and I’m interested to hear from New Zealanders about what has helped them survive the hard times in their lives.
For more details about me, read the Yahoo!Xtra Answers blog... http://nz.blogs.yahoo.com/answers/35/suz…What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
I';ve had my ups and downs but one thing i will never forget is what my mother told me ';that any day above ground is a good day';What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
Hello Suzanne and first of all congrats on winning ';Dancing With The Stars.';
Love and support from both of my parents has also helped me as well as certain songs , especially the lyrics mostly.
I've always found ';Heroes'; by David Bowie to be inspirational because eventhough in the song it states the lovers can't be together which is depressing they still have hope to carry on even if for just one day which is inspiring though their circumstances.
With every action there comes a consequence - some great and some awful, so I believe as long as you are being true to yourself with what you do, that you will always get through the ups and downs. Not all bad is negative in that, sometimes good comes from it - maybe a new direction etc - you know like lifes way of giving you a shake and saying ';take this road';
Love many, Trust few
Always paddle your own canoe
this is what my friend told me which really helped me and made me think:
';things don't always pan out how we want it or how we plan it but it these challenges or obstacles in our life's journey that god has in place for us, its not there to make our lives difficult and for it to seem impossible to live but instead these hardships, challenges, and obstacles are there to make you a stronger, better more mature and healthier person inside and out. Its one placed so you can learn from your own mistakes and grow from them into a much wiser person in the near future.';
SUZZANE ARE YOU INTERESTED IN A RESEARCH PROJECT INVOLVING STUDY OF ENTREPRENEURS IN NZ WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED A BUSINESS FAILURE - I HAVE FULL ETHICAL APPROVAL FROM THE UNIVERSITY AND CAN SEND YOU THE DETAILS OF THIS PROJECT. YOUR VIEWS CAN HELP FUTURE ENTREPRENEURS IN THIS COUNTRY.PLEASE EMAIL ME IF INTERESTED. THANKS
I don't know you, never hard of you, but if you have been knocked down and have picked yourself up then I applaud you. This is something we have all had to do in our lives. This is part of life's experience.However if you are a ';celebrity'; then don't expect any extra plaudits from me . You live your life - I'll live mine
never too young and never too old to start again. Never give up. Never say never.
';Whatever doesn't kill ya makes you stronger.';
I also have had my ups and downs, and have found the support of my family and friends the best medicine to have picked myself up and start again. Also I think the power of positive thinking and trying not to dwell on the negative is a huge healer.
My grandma's advice, when in trouble, don't sit down and weep for too long. Get up and get going, pick yourself up because no one else is going to do it for you. Once you've picked yourself up, the ones that love you see your strength and progress and it helps them to keep on supporting you too. Indeed, it is their love that gets you through these times and combined with your own strength, they make a powerful duo. Look at your future, the past doesn't define who you are today, but who you are today, will define your future.
Like yourself, I have certainly had my share of hard times. What has got me through is my love for and from my children and my love for and from my Lord Jesus.
Keep battling on and don`t look back
Up's and Down's are life's continuous happening. My advice is be cool always. If you are carried away by emotion or mental health, try to rest and go away from the situation. Walk away.
you have to take the good with the bad
I was really low and was going to turn gay , but my new partner saved me from that now I am on a high all the time
Everything is temporary,so whether it's good or bad it will soon be over. Enjoy the good moments and if it's a bad moment at least you'll know it wouldn't last.
Basically we know that most of lifes ups and then downs are results of worrying about things. I heard a statistic stating that 95% of the things that people worry about never happen. And I have heard that both the Deli lama and Jesus both said ';do not worry about tommorrow for tommorrow will have enough worries of its own.'; So basically quit worrying!
';It is not so much what happens to you in life, but how you deal with it inside your head. So much is random and out of our control and can't be changed. The way we perceive it, can.';
I was told years ago by a retired Pastor friend to NEVER make decisions when I'm feeling either too high or too low. Wait for the mood to stabilise then make the decision.
I'm bi-polar so this was of particular value for myself. But I think its great advice for everyone really.
Good luck with your research. Hope this helps.
Hi suzanne, nice to ';meet you'; lol, I am a great fan of yours, but not in a scary freakish sort of way, just of admoration :)
My life has also had its ups and downs, (without the critical public eye) My childhood wasnt easy, but Ive come through to have my life exactly how Ive wanted it through my own determination and effort, as you have.
I will be honest, I dont remember alot of the bad stuff that happened to me as a child (I was ward of the state in NZ from birth till I was 12 years old) so my bad memory has in some weird way, been a saviour, but I have always been the sort of person who looks at life as ';half full'; I look at the negative things that have happened as things that have indeed happened, and I make sure they wont happen again (to me or especially my children) I realised at an early age, that you have to make yourself happy, no one else can do that for you, and thinking positive is a state of mind that will help, where as thinking negatively will only bring you down.
Sorry to ramble, I can go on for a long time, but have pretty much given the jist of it... thanks for reading, and I wish you all the very best with your upcoming plans.
My Mum (I love her soooo much!!) has always told me that if I cant see any hope in my situation and if I have lost faith in myself then I am up the boowai without a paddle!! :-)
And the other thing that carries me through when things get tough is to always look for the good in my situation because no matter how small that good is - it will be there
I went through a messy marriage breakup (quite a while ago). My husband had been selliing off my shares without my knowledge. (He also had a girlfriend or two stashed away). I was at my lowest ebb, having just lost my dad. I still don't know where it came from but out of nowhere my sense of humour returned with a vengeance, along with my fighting spirit.
I moved out with our three children to a cheap shabby flat and somehow had the best time in my life. I found me and my kids. Also the undying support of family.
I have recently comeback again after having an aneurysm leak on the brain. Without my sense of humour and kids, I would have had half a life. Like you Suzanne I am a fighter. It's not easy but like you I have ben blessed with a wicked sense of humour. I am sure this is what has made the difference between acceptance or desperation
hey there!!! People like you Suzzanne are an inspiration to alot of people, myself included. Life isnt like a box of choccies, its like a bicycle, u just gotta get back on if u fall. Dont listen to negative advise and just be yourself, cliche i know, but it seems to be the right way. You only have urself to blame so u might as well live ur way. Keeping active helps me plenty. Going for a walk in a park or around the duck pond is good for me. I like to think of the positives and be around happy people.
Life goes on as a teacher!every day has a new lesson ...harder and you should know how to play this game to be the winner with all the things you have learned! It teaches us to know ourselves and how can we use our abilities .
To win this game we don't need anything more than ourselves!
It's me as I am and I will win as I have so many powers although I do not know them!God helps me... :)
well suzane i think you have done well i came from fiji with $2000 when i was 19 years of age got involved in car industry did very well workin for a company for five years than started my own car yard with twenty cars and after two years later opened 5 caryards with 4oo cars in a partnership which was going very well untill nz government deregulated lmvd licence our profit margins shrunk overnight still we carried on for another year or so until my business partner misused funds to import boats from usa which never exist finally i had to go through bankruptcy like you did . I always was positive with my self not anything letting me down and am still surviving which is helping me a lot and still carrying on with the same industry as a overseas buyer for other car companies and hopefully i will open another car yard of my own in the near future.
That everyone is unique in their own way. Take encouragement from family and friends they are the best support for anyone. Remember to forgive if you have been hurt by someone. This helps you to be a peaceful and loving person not an angry and bitter person. Lastly we have only one life so don't waste it, live life to the fullest being happy in what you do:)
that old standby: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
also robert fulghum's 'everything i need to know about life i learned in kindergarten' is pretty accurate, my husband and i truly believe that piece of work.
i have always told my kids ';you don't live in that person's skin, so you don't know what the truth is about what happens in their life';. in other words, don't believe gossip.
and last but not least: if you can't look at yourself in the mirror at the end of the day, then you have to make amends tomorrow!
see : )
If you always treat others as you would like them to treat you - in most instances, makes life easier - and often good things come right back to you. I think that if you treat others abysmally, so your life will reflect your rewards
I have learned to surround myself with gentleness. I avoid judemental types who usually come from ignorance or a mean spirit. I try to treat myself as if I am my own child - lovingly.
I accept the knocks as a challenge to be overcome.
I accept my inadequecies with humility and humour.
I dont try to measure up to what others achieve but what I have been given to work with. I embrace my own unique talent with joy and passion.
I try to.keep a balance in my life between work, family, friends, hobbies, health and recreation and give 100% attention to each.
I try not be dutiful but genuine with my time for others.
I try to learn from my mistakes and forgive myself (over and over again!).
For more details about me, read the Yahoo!Xtra Answers blog... http://nz.blogs.yahoo.com/answers/35/suz…What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
I';ve had my ups and downs but one thing i will never forget is what my mother told me ';that any day above ground is a good day';What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
Hello Suzanne and first of all congrats on winning ';Dancing With The Stars.';
Love and support from both of my parents has also helped me as well as certain songs , especially the lyrics mostly.
I've always found ';Heroes'; by David Bowie to be inspirational because eventhough in the song it states the lovers can't be together which is depressing they still have hope to carry on even if for just one day which is inspiring though their circumstances.
With every action there comes a consequence - some great and some awful, so I believe as long as you are being true to yourself with what you do, that you will always get through the ups and downs. Not all bad is negative in that, sometimes good comes from it - maybe a new direction etc - you know like lifes way of giving you a shake and saying ';take this road';
Love many, Trust few
Always paddle your own canoe
this is what my friend told me which really helped me and made me think:
';things don't always pan out how we want it or how we plan it but it these challenges or obstacles in our life's journey that god has in place for us, its not there to make our lives difficult and for it to seem impossible to live but instead these hardships, challenges, and obstacles are there to make you a stronger, better more mature and healthier person inside and out. Its one placed so you can learn from your own mistakes and grow from them into a much wiser person in the near future.';
SUZZANE ARE YOU INTERESTED IN A RESEARCH PROJECT INVOLVING STUDY OF ENTREPRENEURS IN NZ WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED A BUSINESS FAILURE - I HAVE FULL ETHICAL APPROVAL FROM THE UNIVERSITY AND CAN SEND YOU THE DETAILS OF THIS PROJECT. YOUR VIEWS CAN HELP FUTURE ENTREPRENEURS IN THIS COUNTRY.PLEASE EMAIL ME IF INTERESTED. THANKS
I don't know you, never hard of you, but if you have been knocked down and have picked yourself up then I applaud you. This is something we have all had to do in our lives. This is part of life's experience.However if you are a ';celebrity'; then don't expect any extra plaudits from me . You live your life - I'll live mine
never too young and never too old to start again. Never give up. Never say never.
';Whatever doesn't kill ya makes you stronger.';
I also have had my ups and downs, and have found the support of my family and friends the best medicine to have picked myself up and start again. Also I think the power of positive thinking and trying not to dwell on the negative is a huge healer.
My grandma's advice, when in trouble, don't sit down and weep for too long. Get up and get going, pick yourself up because no one else is going to do it for you. Once you've picked yourself up, the ones that love you see your strength and progress and it helps them to keep on supporting you too. Indeed, it is their love that gets you through these times and combined with your own strength, they make a powerful duo. Look at your future, the past doesn't define who you are today, but who you are today, will define your future.
Like yourself, I have certainly had my share of hard times. What has got me through is my love for and from my children and my love for and from my Lord Jesus.
Keep battling on and don`t look back
Up's and Down's are life's continuous happening. My advice is be cool always. If you are carried away by emotion or mental health, try to rest and go away from the situation. Walk away.
you have to take the good with the bad
I was really low and was going to turn gay , but my new partner saved me from that now I am on a high all the time
Everything is temporary,so whether it's good or bad it will soon be over. Enjoy the good moments and if it's a bad moment at least you'll know it wouldn't last.
Basically we know that most of lifes ups and then downs are results of worrying about things. I heard a statistic stating that 95% of the things that people worry about never happen. And I have heard that both the Deli lama and Jesus both said ';do not worry about tommorrow for tommorrow will have enough worries of its own.'; So basically quit worrying!
';It is not so much what happens to you in life, but how you deal with it inside your head. So much is random and out of our control and can't be changed. The way we perceive it, can.';
I was told years ago by a retired Pastor friend to NEVER make decisions when I'm feeling either too high or too low. Wait for the mood to stabilise then make the decision.
I'm bi-polar so this was of particular value for myself. But I think its great advice for everyone really.
Good luck with your research. Hope this helps.
Hi suzanne, nice to ';meet you'; lol, I am a great fan of yours, but not in a scary freakish sort of way, just of admoration :)
My life has also had its ups and downs, (without the critical public eye) My childhood wasnt easy, but Ive come through to have my life exactly how Ive wanted it through my own determination and effort, as you have.
I will be honest, I dont remember alot of the bad stuff that happened to me as a child (I was ward of the state in NZ from birth till I was 12 years old) so my bad memory has in some weird way, been a saviour, but I have always been the sort of person who looks at life as ';half full'; I look at the negative things that have happened as things that have indeed happened, and I make sure they wont happen again (to me or especially my children) I realised at an early age, that you have to make yourself happy, no one else can do that for you, and thinking positive is a state of mind that will help, where as thinking negatively will only bring you down.
Sorry to ramble, I can go on for a long time, but have pretty much given the jist of it... thanks for reading, and I wish you all the very best with your upcoming plans.
My Mum (I love her soooo much!!) has always told me that if I cant see any hope in my situation and if I have lost faith in myself then I am up the boowai without a paddle!! :-)
And the other thing that carries me through when things get tough is to always look for the good in my situation because no matter how small that good is - it will be there
I went through a messy marriage breakup (quite a while ago). My husband had been selliing off my shares without my knowledge. (He also had a girlfriend or two stashed away). I was at my lowest ebb, having just lost my dad. I still don't know where it came from but out of nowhere my sense of humour returned with a vengeance, along with my fighting spirit.
I moved out with our three children to a cheap shabby flat and somehow had the best time in my life. I found me and my kids. Also the undying support of family.
I have recently comeback again after having an aneurysm leak on the brain. Without my sense of humour and kids, I would have had half a life. Like you Suzanne I am a fighter. It's not easy but like you I have ben blessed with a wicked sense of humour. I am sure this is what has made the difference between acceptance or desperation
hey there!!! People like you Suzzanne are an inspiration to alot of people, myself included. Life isnt like a box of choccies, its like a bicycle, u just gotta get back on if u fall. Dont listen to negative advise and just be yourself, cliche i know, but it seems to be the right way. You only have urself to blame so u might as well live ur way. Keeping active helps me plenty. Going for a walk in a park or around the duck pond is good for me. I like to think of the positives and be around happy people.
Life goes on as a teacher!every day has a new lesson ...harder and you should know how to play this game to be the winner with all the things you have learned! It teaches us to know ourselves and how can we use our abilities .
To win this game we don't need anything more than ourselves!
It's me as I am and I will win as I have so many powers although I do not know them!God helps me... :)
well suzane i think you have done well i came from fiji with $2000 when i was 19 years of age got involved in car industry did very well workin for a company for five years than started my own car yard with twenty cars and after two years later opened 5 caryards with 4oo cars in a partnership which was going very well untill nz government deregulated lmvd licence our profit margins shrunk overnight still we carried on for another year or so until my business partner misused funds to import boats from usa which never exist finally i had to go through bankruptcy like you did . I always was positive with my self not anything letting me down and am still surviving which is helping me a lot and still carrying on with the same industry as a overseas buyer for other car companies and hopefully i will open another car yard of my own in the near future.
That everyone is unique in their own way. Take encouragement from family and friends they are the best support for anyone. Remember to forgive if you have been hurt by someone. This helps you to be a peaceful and loving person not an angry and bitter person. Lastly we have only one life so don't waste it, live life to the fullest being happy in what you do:)
that old standby: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
also robert fulghum's 'everything i need to know about life i learned in kindergarten' is pretty accurate, my husband and i truly believe that piece of work.
i have always told my kids ';you don't live in that person's skin, so you don't know what the truth is about what happens in their life';. in other words, don't believe gossip.
and last but not least: if you can't look at yourself in the mirror at the end of the day, then you have to make amends tomorrow!
see : )
If you always treat others as you would like them to treat you - in most instances, makes life easier - and often good things come right back to you. I think that if you treat others abysmally, so your life will reflect your rewards
I have learned to surround myself with gentleness. I avoid judemental types who usually come from ignorance or a mean spirit. I try to treat myself as if I am my own child - lovingly.
I accept the knocks as a challenge to be overcome.
I accept my inadequecies with humility and humour.
I dont try to measure up to what others achieve but what I have been given to work with. I embrace my own unique talent with joy and passion.
I try to.keep a balance in my life between work, family, friends, hobbies, health and recreation and give 100% attention to each.
I try not be dutiful but genuine with my time for others.
I try to learn from my mistakes and forgive myself (over and over again!).
Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
you've ever been given?Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
Always tell the truth.Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
There will be time for worrying later
just be yourself
Always tell the truth.Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
There will be time for worrying later
just be yourself
Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am dating this guys for a while now. Recently, I went to his myspace and facebook. He wrote over 20 poems about a girl, he loved.
I think, she left him becuase of distance and situation; however, he seems to express strong feelings for her.
What should I do? Do you think he still love her? Should I back off?
Thank you.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I would be okay with it until we started getting into a more serious, long-lasting relationship. At that time, I would ask that he please remove them. I would feel that as long as he is publicly displaying them, he is hoping she would see them and think he still cares. At that point in your relationship, you should be able to talk this over maturely.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Wow, a guy writing 20 poems about a girl that dumped him and publicly displaying them online? Red flag!
GOD !! that's horrible !! I know what it is like been in a situation like that one ( I mean .. the guys one) well !! I will tell you something !!! if he is with you is because of something !!!!!!!! usually guys don't do anything they do not want to do, then I think he is with you because he loves you !!! maybe he still love that girl, but I seriously think he is forgetting about her, maybe its been slow, but I bet you he is, so I would not back off
you can ask him too !!!
I have been in this guy's shoes! My girlfriend at the time, put a large distance between us. It forced my to GET OVER IT%26gt;.......in my own way. It actually helped me to get the 'ex' out of my head. If you expect your relationship to go ANYWHERE while he is in that mode.....you're probably mistaken. Good luck...........Been there.
When he moves past the feelings the poems will be removed. The only reason for having them there is to attract her, so make you decision knowing you will be number two until he gives up or she comes back.
He's in a lot of pain. Maybe you can help. It sounds like he could use some friends.
there is some feelings there obviously but it depends on when hes wrote them. if he opens up to talk to you on that past listen and dont judge
I would have to agree with all the people who say ';bad news'; to this one. I could be wrong though talk to this guy and ask him how he really feels about this girl ( you never know he could have wrote these a long time ago and just never deleted them.) I would be leery and be sure to pay attention for signs of not being 100% truthfull. sounds to me like he's still in love and it might not be the best time for you.
I would talk to him and ask him if he wants some space for a while to get over her. If you care about him you just have to talk to him.
how long ago was it??
I would think he is looking to express himself...which is gr8
give it time hun...then u will see if he has passions for u
GL
Depends on timing. If this was a recent occurence, then give him some space for at least a year.
hmmm...honestly i really dont want to be blunt or mean but i think considering the senario he really loves her more. my friend is in the SAME exact situation. its really hard not to get a girl/boyfriend when your one love moves away. if this doesn't sound right in this case, cause i have no way of knowing what type of guy ur dating, ask him very slowly or hint cause if ur straight to the point he might be offended or hurt. hope this helps. : )
It sounds like he's still hung up over her. If I were in your situation, I would probably get out now before getting too attached.
give him time to get over that girl get to know him and he'll do the same who knows he might end up liking u
Back off give him time and see
Were they recently written or old school stuff? It all depends on how long ago they were written I guess. I would ask him what they were about and base my answer off of that. Obviously if he has feelings for her (and you will be able to tell when you ask) then its time to back off and just be his friend until he comes to terms with things and realizes what an awesome girl he has standing next to him waiting for something more :-)
You need to ask him. This may have been some time ago and no longer applies. It also may be that he has feelings for her... He is the only one who can answer this question.
Ask him how he feels about you, and what he sees for his future. This will give you some indication.
He's still grieving for it.
Stick around, be a friend but don't be the rebound girl.
He'll get over it and then you can see what's what.
Go for it, he's with you for a reason. The past is the past.
When were they dated? If they were posted during the span of your relationship, he's probably not over her yet. It's hard to say definitively without seeing the precise wording.
ughh honey im in the same situations, guys are hard to read..but trust me, what you want to do, is talk to him, even just start out slow, tell him you think you know what his poems are about, let him know you are their for him no matter what, become good friends, and eventually tell him you want to be more than friends, and if he doesnt want to with you its ok, but you just had to let him know incase!
I think, she left him becuase of distance and situation; however, he seems to express strong feelings for her.
What should I do? Do you think he still love her? Should I back off?
Thank you.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I would be okay with it until we started getting into a more serious, long-lasting relationship. At that time, I would ask that he please remove them. I would feel that as long as he is publicly displaying them, he is hoping she would see them and think he still cares. At that point in your relationship, you should be able to talk this over maturely.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Wow, a guy writing 20 poems about a girl that dumped him and publicly displaying them online? Red flag!
GOD !! that's horrible !! I know what it is like been in a situation like that one ( I mean .. the guys one) well !! I will tell you something !!! if he is with you is because of something !!!!!!!! usually guys don't do anything they do not want to do, then I think he is with you because he loves you !!! maybe he still love that girl, but I seriously think he is forgetting about her, maybe its been slow, but I bet you he is, so I would not back off
you can ask him too !!!
I have been in this guy's shoes! My girlfriend at the time, put a large distance between us. It forced my to GET OVER IT%26gt;.......in my own way. It actually helped me to get the 'ex' out of my head. If you expect your relationship to go ANYWHERE while he is in that mode.....you're probably mistaken. Good luck...........Been there.
When he moves past the feelings the poems will be removed. The only reason for having them there is to attract her, so make you decision knowing you will be number two until he gives up or she comes back.
He's in a lot of pain. Maybe you can help. It sounds like he could use some friends.
there is some feelings there obviously but it depends on when hes wrote them. if he opens up to talk to you on that past listen and dont judge
I would have to agree with all the people who say ';bad news'; to this one. I could be wrong though talk to this guy and ask him how he really feels about this girl ( you never know he could have wrote these a long time ago and just never deleted them.) I would be leery and be sure to pay attention for signs of not being 100% truthfull. sounds to me like he's still in love and it might not be the best time for you.
I would talk to him and ask him if he wants some space for a while to get over her. If you care about him you just have to talk to him.
how long ago was it??
I would think he is looking to express himself...which is gr8
give it time hun...then u will see if he has passions for u
GL
Depends on timing. If this was a recent occurence, then give him some space for at least a year.
hmmm...honestly i really dont want to be blunt or mean but i think considering the senario he really loves her more. my friend is in the SAME exact situation. its really hard not to get a girl/boyfriend when your one love moves away. if this doesn't sound right in this case, cause i have no way of knowing what type of guy ur dating, ask him very slowly or hint cause if ur straight to the point he might be offended or hurt. hope this helps. : )
It sounds like he's still hung up over her. If I were in your situation, I would probably get out now before getting too attached.
give him time to get over that girl get to know him and he'll do the same who knows he might end up liking u
Back off give him time and see
Were they recently written or old school stuff? It all depends on how long ago they were written I guess. I would ask him what they were about and base my answer off of that. Obviously if he has feelings for her (and you will be able to tell when you ask) then its time to back off and just be his friend until he comes to terms with things and realizes what an awesome girl he has standing next to him waiting for something more :-)
You need to ask him. This may have been some time ago and no longer applies. It also may be that he has feelings for her... He is the only one who can answer this question.
Ask him how he feels about you, and what he sees for his future. This will give you some indication.
He's still grieving for it.
Stick around, be a friend but don't be the rebound girl.
He'll get over it and then you can see what's what.
Go for it, he's with you for a reason. The past is the past.
When were they dated? If they were posted during the span of your relationship, he's probably not over her yet. It's hard to say definitively without seeing the precise wording.
ughh honey im in the same situations, guys are hard to read..but trust me, what you want to do, is talk to him, even just start out slow, tell him you think you know what his poems are about, let him know you are their for him no matter what, become good friends, and eventually tell him you want to be more than friends, and if he doesnt want to with you its ok, but you just had to let him know incase!
Writing sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Can I submit my 15-20 pages research paper as a writting sample for a job?Writing sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If your writing can be anything then yes
Best of luck =PWriting sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No. There is not an employer alive who has the time to read 20 pages of paper, and if you submit it, they will toss it. Pick out the best half page excerpt from this paper, and submit that, being sure to include a statement beforehand on what the original paper was about.
I agree with country's above. Time is important to managers.
If your writing can be anything then yes
Best of luck =PWriting sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No. There is not an employer alive who has the time to read 20 pages of paper, and if you submit it, they will toss it. Pick out the best half page excerpt from this paper, and submit that, being sure to include a statement beforehand on what the original paper was about.
I agree with country's above. Time is important to managers.
I need advice about a best guy friend?
Okay so me and this guys have been friends for a few years but we recently slept with each other (more than once recently) we did it to experiment? But I've always thought he was attractive, what do i do now to get him to want to be in a relationship with me? Also, how do i find out if he even likes me with out asking him upfront?I need advice about a best guy friend?
You can't go around not asking him up front. Ask him up front he will be impressed by your confidence and respect you. If he turns you down then you can move on instead of staying love sickI need advice about a best guy friend?
i know text him and impersonate some one he dont know about and ask him questions act like u an other person who found da phone and stuff or get one of ur friends to talk to him and when the times right ur friend asks him what he thinks about u
Sometimes when you have sex too soon its hard to build any thing else later.The only thing you can do is wait.And don't be too available.
well ask him and eventully marriage
AWKWARD!!! haha the only way to find out is to askroc bloom-
You can't go around not asking him up front. Ask him up front he will be impressed by your confidence and respect you. If he turns you down then you can move on instead of staying love sickI need advice about a best guy friend?
i know text him and impersonate some one he dont know about and ask him questions act like u an other person who found da phone and stuff or get one of ur friends to talk to him and when the times right ur friend asks him what he thinks about u
Sometimes when you have sex too soon its hard to build any thing else later.The only thing you can do is wait.And don't be too available.
well ask him and eventully marriage
AWKWARD!!! haha the only way to find out is to ask
What is the best way to sell a car in todays economy? any advice to get ahead of the competition?
I need to sell my 2000 GMC Jimmy ASAP....any advice on how to do this as there is so much for sale and not many people buying todayWhat is the best way to sell a car in todays economy? any advice to get ahead of the competition?
No good answer in today's economy. Put it into the truck trader, hang a sign in the window of the jimmy. Pass the word around to your friends, maybe they have friends that may be interested. No good answer, especially for a quick sale.What is the best way to sell a car in todays economy? any advice to get ahead of the competition?
momulle had some great ideas of where and how to advertise. I would just like to add ... keep it clean inside and out including the windows. Make sure that it starts, and runs well. Touch up any minor scratches, if any, and most important, GOOD LUCK!
all of the above... plus sell way under book value to move it.
No good answer in today's economy. Put it into the truck trader, hang a sign in the window of the jimmy. Pass the word around to your friends, maybe they have friends that may be interested. No good answer, especially for a quick sale.What is the best way to sell a car in todays economy? any advice to get ahead of the competition?
momulle had some great ideas of where and how to advertise. I would just like to add ... keep it clean inside and out including the windows. Make sure that it starts, and runs well. Touch up any minor scratches, if any, and most important, GOOD LUCK!
all of the above... plus sell way under book value to move it.
Best Advice For Hitting A One And Two hand backhand?
The most important thing to know about the two-handed backhand is that sometimes you will have to let go and hit with one hand. That's because the contact point in a two-handed shot must be within a small strike zone just off the front foot, whereas with one hand you have tremendous latitude: you can hit a ball that's way out in front of you or one that's actually gotten behind you, one that's in the dirt or one that's high over your head, one that's way out to the side or one that right at you. That's a huge strike zone. There will be times in matches when you can't get set up in time to hit the ball with two hands, so, to save the point, you will have to let go and be able to make a decent shot one-handed. For . . .
But in the two-handed backhand you have no off-arm keeping your shoulders from coming around. Both hands are on the racket, and both shoulders are coming round, producing a curved swing.
Does this mean that the two-handed backhand is no good? No, not at all. But it does mean that your left arm must power the shot. The left shoulder isn't coming around so far. The left arm can keep the swing path fairly straight through the hitting zone at least. And so, your supporting arm 鈥?not the dominant arm 鈥?should be the driving force behind the shot.Best Advice For Hitting A One And Two hand backhand?
you need to pick one or the other and work on it ........with the exception of a 2 handed backhander will usually use 1 for a sliceBest Advice For Hitting A One And Two hand backhand?
What I've learned about the one-hander is that you must keep a firm wrist. You can't let your wrist get limp or you'll end up shanking the ball horribly, I learned that from experience. Also, you got to follow all the way through your shot, don't stop half-way or whatever, completely bring your arm up and follow through, you'll get a more consistent shot that way.
I'll just give you the best advice in tennis.. ever
KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE BALL
look at the ball as if you are trying to read the words ';penn'; or whatever brand
it may seem easy but trust me, this is the best way to play tennis...
The best thing that you can remember about hitting a one hand is to keep your wrist straight. As long as you have good footing, and a straight wrist you'll be okay. However I can't agree with the last poster that said the two handed backhand has a very small strike zone. I don't know whether he watches the pro tour but players with two handed backhands hit them from all kinds of angles and depths but if you do use a two hand, you also need to learn a one hand slice which is invaluable. It can be used to slow the pace of the game if you are on the defensive and also to draw your opponent to the net.
But in the two-handed backhand you have no off-arm keeping your shoulders from coming around. Both hands are on the racket, and both shoulders are coming round, producing a curved swing.
Does this mean that the two-handed backhand is no good? No, not at all. But it does mean that your left arm must power the shot. The left shoulder isn't coming around so far. The left arm can keep the swing path fairly straight through the hitting zone at least. And so, your supporting arm 鈥?not the dominant arm 鈥?should be the driving force behind the shot.Best Advice For Hitting A One And Two hand backhand?
you need to pick one or the other and work on it ........with the exception of a 2 handed backhander will usually use 1 for a sliceBest Advice For Hitting A One And Two hand backhand?
What I've learned about the one-hander is that you must keep a firm wrist. You can't let your wrist get limp or you'll end up shanking the ball horribly, I learned that from experience. Also, you got to follow all the way through your shot, don't stop half-way or whatever, completely bring your arm up and follow through, you'll get a more consistent shot that way.
I'll just give you the best advice in tennis.. ever
KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE BALL
look at the ball as if you are trying to read the words ';penn'; or whatever brand
it may seem easy but trust me, this is the best way to play tennis...
The best thing that you can remember about hitting a one hand is to keep your wrist straight. As long as you have good footing, and a straight wrist you'll be okay. However I can't agree with the last poster that said the two handed backhand has a very small strike zone. I don't know whether he watches the pro tour but players with two handed backhands hit them from all kinds of angles and depths but if you do use a two hand, you also need to learn a one hand slice which is invaluable. It can be used to slow the pace of the game if you are on the defensive and also to draw your opponent to the net.
Type A personality--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Everybody said I have type A personality because I am very goal oriented, hard working, success, stress, controlling, and worship perfection.
My boss recently told me that my character makes a great worker, but not a great boss.
How many people agree? Why? Any advice or suggestion?Type A personality--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
With experience comes the ability to deal with the day to day problems. Don't be to quick to become a boss. Learn, listen and earn the trust of the higher ups. A boss would rather have someone he can trust over a good worker.Type A personality--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
i agree with your boss. i'm a type A which means i'm really good at getting my own work done, but when i'm in charge of other people, i tend to stress out and micromanage, which is counterproductive.
of course, you'll never know how you'll do as a boss unless you give it a shot. you might be fabulous!
how rude of ure boss! uhmm well i guess it would all depend on ure workers. u would probably drive them till they want to quit seeing wat a perfectionist and a control freak (no offense intended)u are. loosen up and u'll make a good boss. but ure qualities are a good worker- every bosses' dream worker. OR MAYBE hez just saying this cuz he doesn't want u to quit and make ure own company that'll compete against his
It sounds to me that those characteristics would make an excellent boss. At least the boss I would like to have, but then again it would depend on the job you are working at. Perfection and being in control is okay, but for some smaller jobs where perfection is not needed, a relaxing enviroment might be better suited and make co-workers feel more comfortable. Too relaxed is just as bad as too strict though. I would let your boss know that you are interested in improving and received his imput. I would not suggest telling him you want a promotion. Too eager is bad and no one wants to feel like they may be in competition for his/her own job. Dress appropriately for your position. A suit and tie would not be good for a janitor's position as well as shorts and a Lucky Charms shirt is not good for a buisness industry. I hope this helps.
I think what your boss really means is that you probably have a very judgmental attitude towards others. Also perfection is a mask for anger and feelings of inadequacy and this is why you are intolerant to others mistakes. The anger is a mask for unforgiveness. Bottom line; forgive and you will be able to move ahead freely, and do very well, I'm surel
in your guest for perfection do you factor in mistakes. A true perfectionist would allow for mistakes.
Umm, well that depends on what you and they mean in a type-A personality. I'm taking it as A as in asshole. No hard feelings, just my perspective. I usually don't care about type personalities, i go by my zodiac sign's personality, which fits me to a T.
I agree. People with type A personality are usually perfectionists with no tolerance of mistakes. A boss cannot be like that because such behaviour lowers the morale of their workers.
What kind of work do you do?
Hmm, well, it depends on your entire personality if you would be a bad boss.
Some type A's are so goal-oriented that they forget to be pleasant to people. I know one person who is definitely Type A, but so much so that she never even think to say hello to somebody passing by her. This person isn't trying to be rude, but it always thinking about the next project, or what she is working on at the time. So a lot of people feel put off by her. It is as if they are getting in her way, and they feel the ';get out of my way'; rage.
As a boss you need to be able to balance people skills with your goal motivations. You would need to be able to be sensitive to your employees needs and not push them too hard. You would want to push them enough to get things done, but not so much that they would give up. Type A's usually push people much too hard, because they think that everybody should be willing to work as much as the Type A does. But, alas, it just ain't so. :O)
So if you're a nice person, then you'd be a great boss... if not, then maybe work on it. Or it could even be that your boss is afraid of your success and that you will overtake him/her. So he is trying to get you back away. Just a thought.
Good luck!
What your boss said is not true. Type A personalities love to take charge and often become the leaders and the bosses.
I'm not sure what type A and type B personality is. I usually don't fit into the usual category, so I am probably a mix of both, but I lean more toward one. I remember hearing of this someone before but forgot.
Oh that is not true. Type A folks make great management if they learn not to expect everybody to be as motivated as they are themselves. They need to allow people to be whatever 'type' they are, and if they can be tolerant in that one way, they are the best bosses.
is there a type b??
OW...rough boss...I agree because that what an A type is, the want to be perfect and suceed when you can (although you strees over it). Advice, look for other A type people. Suggestions, make everyone like u :]. (Especially ur boss)
A greater worker : Knows exactly what to do to accomplish a single task.
To manage, is to organize ppl and give ppl goals or tasks according to there specialization to accoplish your single goal. the ' Big picture' And know who fits where in the puzzle of managing ppl is a skill of practice.
My boss recently told me that my character makes a great worker, but not a great boss.
How many people agree? Why? Any advice or suggestion?Type A personality--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
With experience comes the ability to deal with the day to day problems. Don't be to quick to become a boss. Learn, listen and earn the trust of the higher ups. A boss would rather have someone he can trust over a good worker.Type A personality--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
i agree with your boss. i'm a type A which means i'm really good at getting my own work done, but when i'm in charge of other people, i tend to stress out and micromanage, which is counterproductive.
of course, you'll never know how you'll do as a boss unless you give it a shot. you might be fabulous!
how rude of ure boss! uhmm well i guess it would all depend on ure workers. u would probably drive them till they want to quit seeing wat a perfectionist and a control freak (no offense intended)u are. loosen up and u'll make a good boss. but ure qualities are a good worker- every bosses' dream worker. OR MAYBE hez just saying this cuz he doesn't want u to quit and make ure own company that'll compete against his
It sounds to me that those characteristics would make an excellent boss. At least the boss I would like to have, but then again it would depend on the job you are working at. Perfection and being in control is okay, but for some smaller jobs where perfection is not needed, a relaxing enviroment might be better suited and make co-workers feel more comfortable. Too relaxed is just as bad as too strict though. I would let your boss know that you are interested in improving and received his imput. I would not suggest telling him you want a promotion. Too eager is bad and no one wants to feel like they may be in competition for his/her own job. Dress appropriately for your position. A suit and tie would not be good for a janitor's position as well as shorts and a Lucky Charms shirt is not good for a buisness industry. I hope this helps.
I think what your boss really means is that you probably have a very judgmental attitude towards others. Also perfection is a mask for anger and feelings of inadequacy and this is why you are intolerant to others mistakes. The anger is a mask for unforgiveness. Bottom line; forgive and you will be able to move ahead freely, and do very well, I'm surel
in your guest for perfection do you factor in mistakes. A true perfectionist would allow for mistakes.
Umm, well that depends on what you and they mean in a type-A personality. I'm taking it as A as in asshole. No hard feelings, just my perspective. I usually don't care about type personalities, i go by my zodiac sign's personality, which fits me to a T.
I agree. People with type A personality are usually perfectionists with no tolerance of mistakes. A boss cannot be like that because such behaviour lowers the morale of their workers.
What kind of work do you do?
Hmm, well, it depends on your entire personality if you would be a bad boss.
Some type A's are so goal-oriented that they forget to be pleasant to people. I know one person who is definitely Type A, but so much so that she never even think to say hello to somebody passing by her. This person isn't trying to be rude, but it always thinking about the next project, or what she is working on at the time. So a lot of people feel put off by her. It is as if they are getting in her way, and they feel the ';get out of my way'; rage.
As a boss you need to be able to balance people skills with your goal motivations. You would need to be able to be sensitive to your employees needs and not push them too hard. You would want to push them enough to get things done, but not so much that they would give up. Type A's usually push people much too hard, because they think that everybody should be willing to work as much as the Type A does. But, alas, it just ain't so. :O)
So if you're a nice person, then you'd be a great boss... if not, then maybe work on it. Or it could even be that your boss is afraid of your success and that you will overtake him/her. So he is trying to get you back away. Just a thought.
Good luck!
What your boss said is not true. Type A personalities love to take charge and often become the leaders and the bosses.
I'm not sure what type A and type B personality is. I usually don't fit into the usual category, so I am probably a mix of both, but I lean more toward one. I remember hearing of this someone before but forgot.
Oh that is not true. Type A folks make great management if they learn not to expect everybody to be as motivated as they are themselves. They need to allow people to be whatever 'type' they are, and if they can be tolerant in that one way, they are the best bosses.
is there a type b??
OW...rough boss...I agree because that what an A type is, the want to be perfect and suceed when you can (although you strees over it). Advice, look for other A type people. Suggestions, make everyone like u :]. (Especially ur boss)
A greater worker : Knows exactly what to do to accomplish a single task.
To manage, is to organize ppl and give ppl goals or tasks according to there specialization to accoplish your single goal. the ' Big picture' And know who fits where in the puzzle of managing ppl is a skill of practice.
Best advice on how to survive college?
Get lots of sleep and keep up with your homework.
Join clubs and make every effort to make friends. Try clubs that deal with your major/concentration.
Be open minded, you will be living on your own for the first time. This means trying out new things for yourself.
Learn how to do laundry. Bringing home clothes is somewhat pathetic. Mom can't do it for the rest of your life.
DO NOT GO HOME EVERY WEEKEND! This will affect your studies and will make you homesick. Call home no more than 3 times a week. This may be tough initially, but you can do it. Have your own life!
Take random classes on different subjects that interest you. I took yoga and loved it!
Never walk home alone after dark EVER, especially off campus. This is to be multiplied by 10 if you are walking back from a party or a bar.
ALWAYS wear/use a condom. My roommate in college got chlamydia three times. If he won't wear one then you don't want to be sleeping with someone like him anyways.
Follow these points and you will graduate college with high grades, life-long knowledge, and disease free.
Good luck and have a great time!Best advice on how to survive college?
Some good advice from others here already, here are a few things i've learned from my first year at my second university:
socialising:
- try and take advantage of every opportunity offered to you
- if something scares you, make sure you do it.
- try and meet as many people as possible, make every effort you can to speak to new people and find out about them - you never know who'll become a friend for life
- definitely take up a new hobby, or several new hobbies. this year i started ballroom dancing, got dragged along with a friend, and am now so obsessed i practice every night.. you never know what you'll love until you try it!
money:
- don't waste money on expensive food, cheaper versions are often just as good as brand names (you're american right? or not british anyway. i assume your supermarkets are the same as ours in that they make v cheap own brand versions of stuff, e.g. Tesco's own baked beans etc.)
- this includes takeaways, waste of money!
- all this will allow you to spend your money on more worthwhile things like life experiences you'll never forget
health:
- keep up sports, exercise, gym etc. a healthy body is good for a healthy mind
use of time:
- if you find yourself feeling lethargic and not really doing any work or just sitting around a lot, force yourself to go and try something new. i find the most productive days are the ones where there is so much going on and you cram stuff into allotted time periods.
drugs:
- experiment with softer ones if you fancy it, probly leave it a few weeks after you've arrived and settled in though
alcohol
- if you're american you probly can't drink, but if the opportunities are there you might as well drink yourself stupid. after a couple of years of that the novelty wears off so it's good to get it out of your system!
good luck!Best advice on how to survive college?
Haha, I'm not sure there's any good, specific advice that anyone can give you. Do your assigned reading, do your homework, study, make connections, make friends, and don't be stupid.
And by ';don't be stupid';, I mean don't have tons of sex with strangers (a lot of people coming into college get caught up in it).
Feel free to experiment, but at least be smart about it. Try new foods, meet new guys/girls, go drinking, smoke pot, be adventurous.
Just stay in school. It will eventually pay off. Sometimes when we are in the beginning or even the middle, it seems like it is never gonna end. My advise is perserverence. Do not quit. That is what I done, and when you quit it is like you never started. Without a degree of completion, all of the effort that you have put into it is for nothing. Hang in there.
Stay close to your family and try not to run with the crowds.
Join clubs and make every effort to make friends. Try clubs that deal with your major/concentration.
Be open minded, you will be living on your own for the first time. This means trying out new things for yourself.
Learn how to do laundry. Bringing home clothes is somewhat pathetic. Mom can't do it for the rest of your life.
DO NOT GO HOME EVERY WEEKEND! This will affect your studies and will make you homesick. Call home no more than 3 times a week. This may be tough initially, but you can do it. Have your own life!
Take random classes on different subjects that interest you. I took yoga and loved it!
Never walk home alone after dark EVER, especially off campus. This is to be multiplied by 10 if you are walking back from a party or a bar.
ALWAYS wear/use a condom. My roommate in college got chlamydia three times. If he won't wear one then you don't want to be sleeping with someone like him anyways.
Follow these points and you will graduate college with high grades, life-long knowledge, and disease free.
Good luck and have a great time!Best advice on how to survive college?
Some good advice from others here already, here are a few things i've learned from my first year at my second university:
socialising:
- try and take advantage of every opportunity offered to you
- if something scares you, make sure you do it.
- try and meet as many people as possible, make every effort you can to speak to new people and find out about them - you never know who'll become a friend for life
- definitely take up a new hobby, or several new hobbies. this year i started ballroom dancing, got dragged along with a friend, and am now so obsessed i practice every night.. you never know what you'll love until you try it!
money:
- don't waste money on expensive food, cheaper versions are often just as good as brand names (you're american right? or not british anyway. i assume your supermarkets are the same as ours in that they make v cheap own brand versions of stuff, e.g. Tesco's own baked beans etc.)
- this includes takeaways, waste of money!
- all this will allow you to spend your money on more worthwhile things like life experiences you'll never forget
health:
- keep up sports, exercise, gym etc. a healthy body is good for a healthy mind
use of time:
- if you find yourself feeling lethargic and not really doing any work or just sitting around a lot, force yourself to go and try something new. i find the most productive days are the ones where there is so much going on and you cram stuff into allotted time periods.
drugs:
- experiment with softer ones if you fancy it, probly leave it a few weeks after you've arrived and settled in though
alcohol
- if you're american you probly can't drink, but if the opportunities are there you might as well drink yourself stupid. after a couple of years of that the novelty wears off so it's good to get it out of your system!
good luck!Best advice on how to survive college?
Haha, I'm not sure there's any good, specific advice that anyone can give you. Do your assigned reading, do your homework, study, make connections, make friends, and don't be stupid.
And by ';don't be stupid';, I mean don't have tons of sex with strangers (a lot of people coming into college get caught up in it).
Feel free to experiment, but at least be smart about it. Try new foods, meet new guys/girls, go drinking, smoke pot, be adventurous.
Just stay in school. It will eventually pay off. Sometimes when we are in the beginning or even the middle, it seems like it is never gonna end. My advise is perserverence. Do not quit. That is what I done, and when you quit it is like you never started. Without a degree of completion, all of the effort that you have put into it is for nothing. Hang in there.
Stay close to your family and try not to run with the crowds.
Best advice for couples planning on conceiving?
any tips to higher our chances? :)Best advice for couples planning on conceiving?
Don't over think the ';process.'; I have heard from so many people that the second they stopped trying it happened. Don't put pressure on your body to conceive...enjoy the all the ';practice'; and hopefully it will happen sooner rather than later. good luckBest advice for couples planning on conceiving?
I tried this, and it's worked twice for us, and once for a friend of ours:
Lower your stress levels, have sex at night (before you go to sleep) and have the female half of the couple make sure to lay down, and not sit upright, or get up for anything, until morning. If she wants anything during the night, get the man to get it for her (also, make sure that she only gets up to relieve herself if absolutely necessary). Do this for a month, and you should be pregnant.
There are so many things that you can do! But if I was to name everything, it would be a very long list. The best resource is healthline.cc. You can call in and get advice on what to do and also find a practitioner in your area. A very natural approach to conception, birth, and childcare! Dr. Bob Marshall also helps those that are having problems concieving. Good luck!
End w/guy on top. When he finishes have him push in hard and stay there for a minute. Dont have him pull out right away.... Then lay there for 15-20 minutes w/a pillow under your butt or your knees up and your butt tilted in the air. Gravity will help move the sperm down so they'll get there easier. When we're trying we do all that and have sex every single day starting after my period ends up until we know I ovulated. Works everytime. =)
Just relax and have a good time trying. It took my wife and I 6 months! We gave up at one point and only then did she get pregnant. Just remember to be patient.
Don't over think the ';process.'; I have heard from so many people that the second they stopped trying it happened. Don't put pressure on your body to conceive...enjoy the all the ';practice'; and hopefully it will happen sooner rather than later. good luckBest advice for couples planning on conceiving?
I tried this, and it's worked twice for us, and once for a friend of ours:
Lower your stress levels, have sex at night (before you go to sleep) and have the female half of the couple make sure to lay down, and not sit upright, or get up for anything, until morning. If she wants anything during the night, get the man to get it for her (also, make sure that she only gets up to relieve herself if absolutely necessary). Do this for a month, and you should be pregnant.
There are so many things that you can do! But if I was to name everything, it would be a very long list. The best resource is healthline.cc. You can call in and get advice on what to do and also find a practitioner in your area. A very natural approach to conception, birth, and childcare! Dr. Bob Marshall also helps those that are having problems concieving. Good luck!
End w/guy on top. When he finishes have him push in hard and stay there for a minute. Dont have him pull out right away.... Then lay there for 15-20 minutes w/a pillow under your butt or your knees up and your butt tilted in the air. Gravity will help move the sperm down so they'll get there easier. When we're trying we do all that and have sex every single day starting after my period ends up until we know I ovulated. Works everytime. =)
Just relax and have a good time trying. It took my wife and I 6 months! We gave up at one point and only then did she get pregnant. Just remember to be patient.
Oh no, I'm getting fat! Your best advice?
I've gained like 15 pounds in the past 2 months.. I can't help it I just love food! Any tips of how I could get rid of it, and are there any fun outdoor activities where you lose many calories?Oh no, I'm getting fat! Your best advice?
Biking, swimming and running. If you do enough exercise you can counter act the food.Oh no, I'm getting fat! Your best advice?
apparantly something like 60% of the time we think we are hungry we are actualyl thirsty, so drink more!!(though water, not coke or anything) and just make sure you eat more healthily. you can love healthy food too!!! make stuff at home instead of buying freezer food etc. and to lose calories outside, why not try running, or join a tennis club or something. that way you can make friends at the same time as losing weight, and enjoy doing it.
Exercise can be a great motivation for resisting bad food. If you go running for an hour, you might think twice about eating in a minute the calories it took an hour to burn.
I recommend the elliptical - it's low impact and I've gotten great results using it.
whenever you're about to eat, ask yourself...am i really hungry? If you aren't, just drink water or something to tide you over. Try taking a jog with one of your friends, going to the pool, or playing tennis or something like frisbee. Those are always fun, and good exercise. Also try to eat a balanced diet and less fats.
dont eat too much. eat breakfast--a must. just eat %26amp; get energy...move around a lot %26amp; you can't go wrong!
swimming is really good exercise
tennis, long walks get active again..
swimming and dont eat as much
hi, same here.
i also gained about 15 pounds last year. and was able to lose them in 2 months. so i can say its possible.but u need a few things to do that.
firstly kick this thought out of yor mind that exercise only can help get slim. because its not true.its only your diet that can help yo lose or maintain weight. exercise only accelerates the process of losing weight. remember only acclerates. that is if you will lose 3kgs in 10 days.by exercising along with following a diet u will lose it in 8 days. only exercising will exhaust you and wont give full results.thats it.
but its your eating pattern. that decides the weight loss. you need to follow a diet called GM diet to reduce weight. GM diet has many blogs. visit anyone and try it. i reduced because of that quickly. may be you can also do it.
its a simple diet. you can lose 5-6 pounds in a week if you follow it. you will follow it if you have a desire to get slim.
heres a small gist of the General Motors plan ( for all losers in losing weight, its a ray of hope)
day1- eat all fruits. stuff urself with only and only fruits ( caution- no bananas today)
day2- eat all vegetables today. try to eat raw or cooked in little oil or ghee. stuff youself with vegetables
day3- eat a combination of fruits and vegetables. any amount any quantity. ( no bananas yet)
day4- have bananas and milk today.have milk with less sugar and flavour. all the day have banas and milk.
day5- have protien content like sprouts, boiled rice( i didn't prefer rice), beef. sprouts all the best for vegeterians)
day6-today you will have tomatoes. and sprouts again
day7- have brown rice and fruit juices. ( no fruit juices before day 7)
by the end u will have lost 6-7 pounds. definitely. after 3 days gap. start it again. in 2 months you will lose 25 pounds. more than what you wanted.
see you can exercise and play games along with dis plan. in the 3 days gap exercising will be good. but don't base your '; burn it up'; programme solely on exercising ohk. i did it on my willpower. i lost weight and gained confidence.
i know its tough but look it will make you happy later.roc natural beauty tips
Biking, swimming and running. If you do enough exercise you can counter act the food.Oh no, I'm getting fat! Your best advice?
apparantly something like 60% of the time we think we are hungry we are actualyl thirsty, so drink more!!(though water, not coke or anything) and just make sure you eat more healthily. you can love healthy food too!!! make stuff at home instead of buying freezer food etc. and to lose calories outside, why not try running, or join a tennis club or something. that way you can make friends at the same time as losing weight, and enjoy doing it.
Exercise can be a great motivation for resisting bad food. If you go running for an hour, you might think twice about eating in a minute the calories it took an hour to burn.
I recommend the elliptical - it's low impact and I've gotten great results using it.
whenever you're about to eat, ask yourself...am i really hungry? If you aren't, just drink water or something to tide you over. Try taking a jog with one of your friends, going to the pool, or playing tennis or something like frisbee. Those are always fun, and good exercise. Also try to eat a balanced diet and less fats.
dont eat too much. eat breakfast--a must. just eat %26amp; get energy...move around a lot %26amp; you can't go wrong!
swimming is really good exercise
tennis, long walks get active again..
swimming and dont eat as much
hi, same here.
i also gained about 15 pounds last year. and was able to lose them in 2 months. so i can say its possible.but u need a few things to do that.
firstly kick this thought out of yor mind that exercise only can help get slim. because its not true.its only your diet that can help yo lose or maintain weight. exercise only accelerates the process of losing weight. remember only acclerates. that is if you will lose 3kgs in 10 days.by exercising along with following a diet u will lose it in 8 days. only exercising will exhaust you and wont give full results.thats it.
but its your eating pattern. that decides the weight loss. you need to follow a diet called GM diet to reduce weight. GM diet has many blogs. visit anyone and try it. i reduced because of that quickly. may be you can also do it.
its a simple diet. you can lose 5-6 pounds in a week if you follow it. you will follow it if you have a desire to get slim.
heres a small gist of the General Motors plan ( for all losers in losing weight, its a ray of hope)
day1- eat all fruits. stuff urself with only and only fruits ( caution- no bananas today)
day2- eat all vegetables today. try to eat raw or cooked in little oil or ghee. stuff youself with vegetables
day3- eat a combination of fruits and vegetables. any amount any quantity. ( no bananas yet)
day4- have bananas and milk today.have milk with less sugar and flavour. all the day have banas and milk.
day5- have protien content like sprouts, boiled rice( i didn't prefer rice), beef. sprouts all the best for vegeterians)
day6-today you will have tomatoes. and sprouts again
day7- have brown rice and fruit juices. ( no fruit juices before day 7)
by the end u will have lost 6-7 pounds. definitely. after 3 days gap. start it again. in 2 months you will lose 25 pounds. more than what you wanted.
see you can exercise and play games along with dis plan. in the 3 days gap exercising will be good. but don't base your '; burn it up'; programme solely on exercising ohk. i did it on my willpower. i lost weight and gained confidence.
i know its tough but look it will make you happy later.
What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
i have no idea what to tell him ti make him feel better. he really likes his girlfriend, but she's being a total asshole to him and ignoring him. he's been calling me crying just wanting to talk. he says i don't need to give him advice or anyrhing, but i want to make him feel better. i don't want to make it sound like i like him though. yaknow?
help!What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
Don't tell him anything.
In stead look for something fun to do that will keep his mind busy!!!
help!What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
Don't tell him anything.
In stead look for something fun to do that will keep his mind busy!!!
Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I want to write a thesis about Capital Punishment. I would like to prove that race and economic status do influence public support for capital punishment. What do you think of this topic? Will my research be bias? Will I be able to prove this? Please give me some feedback and suggestion.
I am a graduate student. Unfortunately, the MPA program at my university does not emphasize on research---they focus on exams and application. I am just want to do an independence study on how to write a thesis. The professor said, ';Okay, they will help me. Before picking the topic--- I want your suggestion.
Please help. Thank you very much for your kindness.
Sorry for the poor grammar--English is my second language.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
perhaps look at thesis that have been written already as samples for structure / form. it could be a different subject or position than yours . any model would be helpful for you to review. why not ask instructer where you can see one that has been done already ?
proof ... race and economic status / i think you can find solid statistics from the rates / races of those incarcerated. i think it is about 3/4 of prison population is black , hispanic is the next race. white / american / indian / asian / other is the least ? you have to check these facts to be sure that you have right.
the argument is made that these people are economically disadvantaged and do not have access to the best attorneys.
interesting that a government feels they can punish by taking a life / murder / they . they have the same law that punish people for taking a life. not sure who gives them the right ?
i do not personally support capital punishment / there have been a lot of mistakes discovered. DNA has proved a lot of the guilty have been innocent for years.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think you will find in your research that it is not race and economic status that influence public support for capitol punishment, but the statistics show that many people who are sentenced to death because of their crimes are members of minorities and of lower class economical status.
Part of your thesis should entail a thorough examination and analysis of these statistics, and how they give the appearance of racial and economic status influencing captitol punishment sentencings.
I actually debated this issue (affirmative and negative) and did a 25 page thesis on this subject. I can assure you public support for capital punishment has very little to do with economic status and/or race. You need to research this further.
i think it is ok. it might be bias though. But you can prove this.
Your school library and the web will have all you need on the subject. But don't go into it with the preconceived notion that race makes a difference. For example it is a fact that blacks commit a disproportionate % of crime given their population. If, therefore, more die by Capital Punishment than whites, it is not necessarily a matter of racism! Don't try to fit the facts to a particular thesis. Just a suggestion.
I am afraid that you will have a very difficult time proving that race and economic status influence support for capital punishment. Typically the type of crime is what determines the support of capital punishment. I would find another topic to write about or you may become very frusterated. Good luck.
Aren't you biased to begin with? To start research with a race or financial standing is prejudiced to begin with. I think it would be a good idea for you to check out the website for the innocence project. Then maybe you can get an idea of why there is such a problem with capitol punishment. It might be a good idea to research how many innocent people have been killed or were in immediate danger of it.
Try this source.
I am a graduate student. Unfortunately, the MPA program at my university does not emphasize on research---they focus on exams and application. I am just want to do an independence study on how to write a thesis. The professor said, ';Okay, they will help me. Before picking the topic--- I want your suggestion.
Please help. Thank you very much for your kindness.
Sorry for the poor grammar--English is my second language.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
perhaps look at thesis that have been written already as samples for structure / form. it could be a different subject or position than yours . any model would be helpful for you to review. why not ask instructer where you can see one that has been done already ?
proof ... race and economic status / i think you can find solid statistics from the rates / races of those incarcerated. i think it is about 3/4 of prison population is black , hispanic is the next race. white / american / indian / asian / other is the least ? you have to check these facts to be sure that you have right.
the argument is made that these people are economically disadvantaged and do not have access to the best attorneys.
interesting that a government feels they can punish by taking a life / murder / they . they have the same law that punish people for taking a life. not sure who gives them the right ?
i do not personally support capital punishment / there have been a lot of mistakes discovered. DNA has proved a lot of the guilty have been innocent for years.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think you will find in your research that it is not race and economic status that influence public support for capitol punishment, but the statistics show that many people who are sentenced to death because of their crimes are members of minorities and of lower class economical status.
Part of your thesis should entail a thorough examination and analysis of these statistics, and how they give the appearance of racial and economic status influencing captitol punishment sentencings.
I actually debated this issue (affirmative and negative) and did a 25 page thesis on this subject. I can assure you public support for capital punishment has very little to do with economic status and/or race. You need to research this further.
i think it is ok. it might be bias though. But you can prove this.
Your school library and the web will have all you need on the subject. But don't go into it with the preconceived notion that race makes a difference. For example it is a fact that blacks commit a disproportionate % of crime given their population. If, therefore, more die by Capital Punishment than whites, it is not necessarily a matter of racism! Don't try to fit the facts to a particular thesis. Just a suggestion.
I am afraid that you will have a very difficult time proving that race and economic status influence support for capital punishment. Typically the type of crime is what determines the support of capital punishment. I would find another topic to write about or you may become very frusterated. Good luck.
Aren't you biased to begin with? To start research with a race or financial standing is prejudiced to begin with. I think it would be a good idea for you to check out the website for the innocence project. Then maybe you can get an idea of why there is such a problem with capitol punishment. It might be a good idea to research how many innocent people have been killed or were in immediate danger of it.
Try this source.
What is the best advice you have ever recieved?
When in doubt, don't.
My mother used to say this to me. It means, if I'm contemplating doing something that I'm not sure about, don't do it.
She taught us what was right and what was wrong. She assumed we would always know what the right thing to do was and to do it. If we weren't sure whether it was right or wrong then we shouldn't do it.
My mother used to say this to me. It means, if I'm contemplating doing something that I'm not sure about, don't do it.
She taught us what was right and what was wrong. She assumed we would always know what the right thing to do was and to do it. If we weren't sure whether it was right or wrong then we shouldn't do it.
I have a pigmentation on my face, can someone advice what is the best cure to remove it permanetly..?
I used whitening products but doesn't reallly help..I have a pigmentation on my face, can someone advice what is the best cure to remove it permanetly..?
well, maybe you can try go for facial services you can get on 88db, perhaps the beautician will be able to help you with your pigmentation on your face, and she'll advise you on what type of skin care products is suitable for you
well, maybe you can try go for facial services you can get on 88db, perhaps the beautician will be able to help you with your pigmentation on your face, and she'll advise you on what type of skin care products is suitable for you
What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
i have no idea what to tell him ti make him feel better. he really likes his girlfriend, but she's being a total asshole to him and ignoring him. he's been calling me crying just wanting to talk. he says i don't need to give him advice or anyrhing, but i want to make him feel better. i don't want to make it sound like i like him though. yaknow?
help!What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
Ask him if this is the type of girl that you want to spend the rest of his life with and tell him that whatever answer you say is more important than how much you love her.What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
Sometimes, it's not about you telling him anything. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is allow him to vent his feelings.
When I get destroyed by a guy, I like to have a girly-girl night, where my best friend or two and I watch chick flicks and eat massive tons of ice cream in our pj's. I'm sure there's a guy version of this (maybe the latest greatest sports match instead of chick flicks? Batting cages instead of movie?). You could suggest something like this. Sometimes, we'll do a massive postmortem on the relationship and talk for hours about the relationship. Other times, we won't bring up what happened. It's just nice having people who care around. The reality is, the only way you can make him feel better is to make sure he knows you care. If you're there for him, it will make him feel better.
Also, you may consider what you would want your friend to do if you got crushed by a girl. Usually, what you want is the exact thing he wants.
Good luck!
help!What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
Ask him if this is the type of girl that you want to spend the rest of his life with and tell him that whatever answer you say is more important than how much you love her.What advice do i give my best friends who's having problems with his girlfriend?
Sometimes, it's not about you telling him anything. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is allow him to vent his feelings.
When I get destroyed by a guy, I like to have a girly-girl night, where my best friend or two and I watch chick flicks and eat massive tons of ice cream in our pj's. I'm sure there's a guy version of this (maybe the latest greatest sports match instead of chick flicks? Batting cages instead of movie?). You could suggest something like this. Sometimes, we'll do a massive postmortem on the relationship and talk for hours about the relationship. Other times, we won't bring up what happened. It's just nice having people who care around. The reality is, the only way you can make him feel better is to make sure he knows you care. If you're there for him, it will make him feel better.
Also, you may consider what you would want your friend to do if you got crushed by a girl. Usually, what you want is the exact thing he wants.
Good luck!
What is the best fashion advice?
what is the best fashion advice you have ever given heard received for both guys and girls
thanxWhat is the best fashion advice?
Stay away from baggy jeans.What is the best fashion advice?
Dress however the hell you want.
You have to be comfortable in what you are wearing, Always!!!
always be yourselfroc natural beauty tips
thanxWhat is the best fashion advice?
Stay away from baggy jeans.What is the best fashion advice?
Dress however the hell you want.
You have to be comfortable in what you are wearing, Always!!!
always be yourself
When people say ';Don't get hit'; on Boxing, Is this the best or worst advice?
On one side its good since well, not getting hit helps a lot in boxing, on another it sucks because its not exactly the easiest thing to do when going against an experienced boxer.When people say ';Don't get hit'; on Boxing, Is this the best or worst advice?
no realy because you are going to get hit in boxingWhen people say ';Don't get hit'; on Boxing, Is this the best or worst advice?
The above answers are very good. also, it may be a reference to a boxer's style or strengths %26amp; weaknesses. If your trainer wants you to stick %26amp; move or do your business and then get out of the zone, then ';don't get hit'; may send a message. Also, the other messages from the prior contributors.
The Best and Worst Advice.
Best advice when a fighter is losing and the trainer can tell that with the next punch is out. Then yeah, say, ';dont get hit and we can get you rejuvanated for round 7. Just dont get hit in round 6';.
Worst advice because it makes the fighter start to doubt himself. Like ';why did my trainer say that, is it because he thinks I have a weak chin. Damn, im about to get knocked out';. In return, you have a scared fighter, who all he can remember is, ';Dont get hit';.
its good advice but you will get hit sometimes you just need to work on not getting hit. it's kinda like a zen exercise in a way. you practice the impossible to get the best results that you can humanly get
In a general sense, ';Don't get hit'; really means ';Don't get hit too often or too hard.'; If you are a boxer, you WILL get hit.
Well its used as a reminder, to try and keep you on your game plan! Because isnticnct of a man is to go stand toe to toe once they get hit or get called out by the opponent.
Better advice would be, ';stick and move'; or '; hit and dont get hit';
thats the best advice u could get thats the name of the game hit and dont be hit if u think about it ull try to evade punches but dont think about it to much or u wont be able to hit the best way to fowlow that advice is counter punching good counter punchers hit alot and get hit veary little
thats horrible advice lol , there is no need to say that , thats what the pain receptors in the body is for.
good advice would be , remember your breathing , because you get nervous. Or keep them hands up , because u get tired u tend to drop em and need a reminder. And Foot work , because u need to remember to stay light on your feet and not get flat footed , or ur gunna eat leather.
no realy because you are going to get hit in boxingWhen people say ';Don't get hit'; on Boxing, Is this the best or worst advice?
The above answers are very good. also, it may be a reference to a boxer's style or strengths %26amp; weaknesses. If your trainer wants you to stick %26amp; move or do your business and then get out of the zone, then ';don't get hit'; may send a message. Also, the other messages from the prior contributors.
The Best and Worst Advice.
Best advice when a fighter is losing and the trainer can tell that with the next punch is out. Then yeah, say, ';dont get hit and we can get you rejuvanated for round 7. Just dont get hit in round 6';.
Worst advice because it makes the fighter start to doubt himself. Like ';why did my trainer say that, is it because he thinks I have a weak chin. Damn, im about to get knocked out';. In return, you have a scared fighter, who all he can remember is, ';Dont get hit';.
its good advice but you will get hit sometimes you just need to work on not getting hit. it's kinda like a zen exercise in a way. you practice the impossible to get the best results that you can humanly get
In a general sense, ';Don't get hit'; really means ';Don't get hit too often or too hard.'; If you are a boxer, you WILL get hit.
Well its used as a reminder, to try and keep you on your game plan! Because isnticnct of a man is to go stand toe to toe once they get hit or get called out by the opponent.
Better advice would be, ';stick and move'; or '; hit and dont get hit';
thats the best advice u could get thats the name of the game hit and dont be hit if u think about it ull try to evade punches but dont think about it to much or u wont be able to hit the best way to fowlow that advice is counter punching good counter punchers hit alot and get hit veary little
thats horrible advice lol , there is no need to say that , thats what the pain receptors in the body is for.
good advice would be , remember your breathing , because you get nervous. Or keep them hands up , because u get tired u tend to drop em and need a reminder. And Foot work , because u need to remember to stay light on your feet and not get flat footed , or ur gunna eat leather.
Any advice for a first time mom as to when the best time of day is to start rice cereal?
My daughter will be 6 months old in two weeks and I will be starting her on rice cereal next week. My doctor told me it really didn't matter what time of day to give it to her first. She said the evenings use to be typical because people thought it would help the baby sleep through the night or because my milk supply is lowest then. Other say to give it in the morning so you can watch for any reactions... Any thoughts and your reasons for those thought would be appreciated. Thanks!Any advice for a first time mom as to when the best time of day is to start rice cereal?
Any time that's conveneient for you. I probably woudlnt' start at bedtime because if baby has a bad reaction you'd be up all night.
But once you're sure she tolerates it, you could switch to bedtime if convenient. Any advice for a first time mom as to when the best time of day is to start rice cereal?
I gave it to my son for the first time at around 5pm. My mother was over and she wanted to see him eat it for the first time. I don't think I'd have felt comfortable giving it to him right before he went to sleep, because I think checking for reactions is important. Other than that, I don't think the time of day matters. I didn't notice my son sleeping any better when having it at night. Now that he's been eating it for a while, I usually give it to him in the early afternoon.
I would start off in the morning to see how she tolerates it. Also I would do this before offering a bottle feeding so she will be more likely to eat it. But once you know that she will not have any reactions you can give her in the morning and at night (breakfast and dinner).
I was advised to start in the AM. Just because if there was a bad reaction. If after you give her the cereal and know shes fine with it,you can start giving it to her at any time of the day.I too noticed no difference in the sleep pattern once I started giving it to her at night time.
Good Luck!
I give my son in the morning and at night now he sleeps in till 10:00 :) its nice lol. During the day my son seem to be more hungry and at night so I just feed him morning and night.
before bed, then she will probably sleep longer or through the night.
Any time that's conveneient for you. I probably woudlnt' start at bedtime because if baby has a bad reaction you'd be up all night.
But once you're sure she tolerates it, you could switch to bedtime if convenient. Any advice for a first time mom as to when the best time of day is to start rice cereal?
I gave it to my son for the first time at around 5pm. My mother was over and she wanted to see him eat it for the first time. I don't think I'd have felt comfortable giving it to him right before he went to sleep, because I think checking for reactions is important. Other than that, I don't think the time of day matters. I didn't notice my son sleeping any better when having it at night. Now that he's been eating it for a while, I usually give it to him in the early afternoon.
I would start off in the morning to see how she tolerates it. Also I would do this before offering a bottle feeding so she will be more likely to eat it. But once you know that she will not have any reactions you can give her in the morning and at night (breakfast and dinner).
I was advised to start in the AM. Just because if there was a bad reaction. If after you give her the cereal and know shes fine with it,you can start giving it to her at any time of the day.I too noticed no difference in the sleep pattern once I started giving it to her at night time.
Good Luck!
I give my son in the morning and at night now he sleeps in till 10:00 :) its nice lol. During the day my son seem to be more hungry and at night so I just feed him morning and night.
before bed, then she will probably sleep longer or through the night.
Would anybody pls give me some advice on forex trading? What are the best reliable websites for online forex t?
What are the best reliable websites for online forex trading and what are your helpful tips for the one who just started to get acquainted to this? Thanks Would anybody pls give me some advice on forex trading? What are the best reliable websites for online forex t?
forex trading is for pros with lots of experience and deep pockets.
98% of all new traders, even in easier lines such as trading stocks, lose some, all, or more than all of their capital within the first two years -- according to one psychologist who has studied traders and trading for over 25 years.
this effect is so reliable that forex is one of the areas in which ';bucket shops'; still exist. A ';bucket shop'; is one that acknowledges your trade and then throws the chit for it into the bucket -- they never actually have the orders filled because they know that the odds of you winning in the long run are 1 in 50. if they're patient and keep good records, they'll almost certainly end up with your money. And, by not having executed the actual trades, they pocketed all the execution fees [which, btw, you paid]. [Sure ... they occasionally lose a bit -- but with 49 guys paying them for each one who takes some home, they can afford it.]
Would anybody pls give me some advice on forex trading? What are the best reliable websites for online forex t?
take a look at http://practicalfxtrading.blogspot.com/ under Forex Education
you will need to have a look at this site. it will lead you to one of the leading forex site today and, as such, you get to be assured you are dealing with a very legitimate, trusted and reliable forex trading platform. if you are still a newbie, then register and download a Free Forex Ebook for a start. if you have already a little bit of education and would like to enhance whatever knowledge you have then you may want to open an account- mini, gold, platinum or vip in that order- and you will be provided a personal Account Service Manager (ASM) to be your mentor, consultant and trading partner as well with whom you can talk live over the phone, email or chat and discuss anything you want and need to know about forex trading. being an expert forex trader himself, your ASM would be your best resource person to attain your goals of having profitable forex trades in the future. note that the higher account you open would entitle you to better features and privileges as a trader. all the best.
If you're interested in getting into Forex, I recommend you take a look at http://www.forexfromscratch.com which has a really interesting free book about starting off in Forex.
It's a step-by-step beginners guide which is 100% free. Just go to the homepage and download it for free - you'll be able to avoid most of the beginner pitfalls with it.
Hope this helps?
forex trading is for pros with lots of experience and deep pockets.
98% of all new traders, even in easier lines such as trading stocks, lose some, all, or more than all of their capital within the first two years -- according to one psychologist who has studied traders and trading for over 25 years.
this effect is so reliable that forex is one of the areas in which ';bucket shops'; still exist. A ';bucket shop'; is one that acknowledges your trade and then throws the chit for it into the bucket -- they never actually have the orders filled because they know that the odds of you winning in the long run are 1 in 50. if they're patient and keep good records, they'll almost certainly end up with your money. And, by not having executed the actual trades, they pocketed all the execution fees [which, btw, you paid]. [Sure ... they occasionally lose a bit -- but with 49 guys paying them for each one who takes some home, they can afford it.]
Would anybody pls give me some advice on forex trading? What are the best reliable websites for online forex t?
take a look at http://practicalfxtrading.blogspot.com/ under Forex Education
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you will need to have a look at this site. it will lead you to one of the leading forex site today and, as such, you get to be assured you are dealing with a very legitimate, trusted and reliable forex trading platform. if you are still a newbie, then register and download a Free Forex Ebook for a start. if you have already a little bit of education and would like to enhance whatever knowledge you have then you may want to open an account- mini, gold, platinum or vip in that order- and you will be provided a personal Account Service Manager (ASM) to be your mentor, consultant and trading partner as well with whom you can talk live over the phone, email or chat and discuss anything you want and need to know about forex trading. being an expert forex trader himself, your ASM would be your best resource person to attain your goals of having profitable forex trades in the future. note that the higher account you open would entitle you to better features and privileges as a trader. all the best.
If you're interested in getting into Forex, I recommend you take a look at http://www.forexfromscratch.com which has a really interesting free book about starting off in Forex.
It's a step-by-step beginners guide which is 100% free. Just go to the homepage and download it for free - you'll be able to avoid most of the beginner pitfalls with it.
Hope this helps?
Could you please give me some advice on which sewing machine would be best for me?
Hello! I've been looking into intermediate electronic sewing machines. I've looked at the Singer 5160. I will mostly be sewing curtains, pillows, and other household linens. I am looking to spend around $100 on a new or ';gently used'; machine. I have also been looking into the Janome and Brother sewing machines. Any suggestions? Thank you!Could you please give me some advice on which sewing machine would be best for me?
If it has to be new, I'd suggest Janome. For used, I'd keep looking for a pre 1965 Singer or a Pfaff, Elna, Viking/Husqvarna, Necchi, Bernina (not Bernette), Juki or Toyota.
I'm not seeing anything in your list of what you want to sew that suggests you need more than a competent straight stitcher... Singer 15s and 66s go for about $5-10 around here.
http://www.cet.com/~pennys/faq/smfaq.htm
More suggested reading: John Giordano's The Sewing Machine Book.Could you please give me some advice on which sewing machine would be best for me?
If you will be sewing curtains, look for a machine with some ';heft'; to it. You don't want it dancing around the table as you guide yards of 60'; wide heavy fabric through it. You will want a variety of feet so that you may do cording, trapunto, welting, etc. on your pillows. Make sure the machine you choose accepts a variety of needle manufacturers. Schmitz coated needles are a must for some projects and you want to be sure they will fit.
Take each machine for a long test drive at the store. Ask lots of questions. Check out Epinions and other review sites to see what others say about their machines. $100 is at the low end for electronic machines. You may want to shop around some of the stores that sell sewing machines exclusively and see what used machines they have and what sort of warranty they offer.
I have a 20 yr. old Pfaff for everyday stuff and a 40 yr. old Necchi (Italian) that is a workhorse for heavy projects. It's solid metal and can handle the heaviest fabrics with ease.
Good luck on your search. It's always fun to get a new sewing machine.
I have a 1970 Singer, ziz-zag. I bought a buttonholer for it, and I make drape, curtains, slipcovers, men's, women's and childrens clothes with it. I have never needed any more that it does. They're about !5-25 dollars at our St.Vincent's. They may need a tune up, but sewing machines don't ever seem to die.
If it has to be new, I'd suggest Janome. For used, I'd keep looking for a pre 1965 Singer or a Pfaff, Elna, Viking/Husqvarna, Necchi, Bernina (not Bernette), Juki or Toyota.
I'm not seeing anything in your list of what you want to sew that suggests you need more than a competent straight stitcher... Singer 15s and 66s go for about $5-10 around here.
http://www.cet.com/~pennys/faq/smfaq.htm
More suggested reading: John Giordano's The Sewing Machine Book.Could you please give me some advice on which sewing machine would be best for me?
If you will be sewing curtains, look for a machine with some ';heft'; to it. You don't want it dancing around the table as you guide yards of 60'; wide heavy fabric through it. You will want a variety of feet so that you may do cording, trapunto, welting, etc. on your pillows. Make sure the machine you choose accepts a variety of needle manufacturers. Schmitz coated needles are a must for some projects and you want to be sure they will fit.
Take each machine for a long test drive at the store. Ask lots of questions. Check out Epinions and other review sites to see what others say about their machines. $100 is at the low end for electronic machines. You may want to shop around some of the stores that sell sewing machines exclusively and see what used machines they have and what sort of warranty they offer.
I have a 20 yr. old Pfaff for everyday stuff and a 40 yr. old Necchi (Italian) that is a workhorse for heavy projects. It's solid metal and can handle the heaviest fabrics with ease.
Good luck on your search. It's always fun to get a new sewing machine.
I have a 1970 Singer, ziz-zag. I bought a buttonholer for it, and I make drape, curtains, slipcovers, men's, women's and childrens clothes with it. I have never needed any more that it does. They're about !5-25 dollars at our St.Vincent's. They may need a tune up, but sewing machines don't ever seem to die.
What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
a collections agency contacted me about some funds iowe them and demanded that i pay within a certain time period i dont have that much money and have a family to feed and offered them a payment of as much as i could afford per month but they said they would not accept the payment unless it was a certain amount they were requesting what do i do now?What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
Regarding a bond.....just my opinion. I've never heard of this, and would have to look into. Need more info. But my first impression is it's a terrible idea. Especially in this situation.
Lets start with my battle cry! You are about to go to war! Knowledge of the law is your only weapon. Read the links below! The other guy knows the law, now you do too!
First, you are NOT obligated to even talk to collection agencies. The only time you do is if they purchased the collection rights from the original creditor. Send these clowns a cease and desist letter (look at the links below).
Before you continue to negotiate, ask yourself a few questions. Do you still have good credit? If this is the only bad mark you have then it's worth trying to get it paid off and keep it off your records.
If your credit history is already a mess, then one more negative report isn't gonna hurt you. Collectin agencies have only two weapons they can use against you. They threaten you with putting a report on your credit, or to sue you.
If your credit history is already trashed, then they can't threaten you with that. And they will not go through the trouble of sueing you for anything less then $500, unless the collection agency is local and they have local attorneys.
If the creditor is not going to be reasonable with a payment plan that you can afford, it's my opinion to let them sue you. Again, your credit history is already a mess, but the judge will be more lenient then a collection agent. When you explain your financial situation, he will probably put you on a payment plan that you can handle. If he's a jerk, he gives the judgement to the collector and they try to garnish your wages or property. That is the gamble you take.
Ok, all that said, what do you do now?
The cease and desist letter to the collection agency will stop those calls and letters. Next, send a letter to the original creditor making an offer to pay. But DEMAND that in exchange for paying off your debt, they must remove all negative reports from your credit history. They MUST note on your records that the account is PAID IN FULL and NO LATE PAYMENTS. Otherwise, what is the point of paying them? You will still have a bad credit history PLUS you will be broke! If they don't want to work with you, then let them sue you. Send these letters by certified mail, and keep a copy. It will help your case in court by showing that you did attempt to negotiate with them.
I am not a lawyer or a credit counsoler. I am someone who has been down this road and have counsoled many others.
If you need any other advice or encouragement, feel free to contact me.
GET ARMED! READ THE LINKS BELOW!What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
Depending on where u are from, they may or may not offer this. its called a bond. not a savings bond like your probably thinking. You can try and look them up online but i dont think u are going to have any luck because its a new thing. its for people that dont really have a lot of money. say you wanted a 20,000 bond, u can get one and only pay 200 bucks a month for it, therefore u can pay off ur credit and save money for ur family and still only pay 200 bucks a month. now, one catch, not everyone can get a bond. go to your bank and ask them about MONEY BONDS. you need to qualify however cause not just any joe shmoe can walk in there and get one. you need to need it for something specific, like your situation and where its for your credit to support ur family, they will accept u. believe me, if your credit gets messed up, your life is pretty much ruined, u will not find a home anywhere.
I HOPE THIS HELPED... AND GOOD LUCK
Regarding a bond.....just my opinion. I've never heard of this, and would have to look into. Need more info. But my first impression is it's a terrible idea. Especially in this situation.
Lets start with my battle cry! You are about to go to war! Knowledge of the law is your only weapon. Read the links below! The other guy knows the law, now you do too!
First, you are NOT obligated to even talk to collection agencies. The only time you do is if they purchased the collection rights from the original creditor. Send these clowns a cease and desist letter (look at the links below).
Before you continue to negotiate, ask yourself a few questions. Do you still have good credit? If this is the only bad mark you have then it's worth trying to get it paid off and keep it off your records.
If your credit history is already a mess, then one more negative report isn't gonna hurt you. Collectin agencies have only two weapons they can use against you. They threaten you with putting a report on your credit, or to sue you.
If your credit history is already trashed, then they can't threaten you with that. And they will not go through the trouble of sueing you for anything less then $500, unless the collection agency is local and they have local attorneys.
If the creditor is not going to be reasonable with a payment plan that you can afford, it's my opinion to let them sue you. Again, your credit history is already a mess, but the judge will be more lenient then a collection agent. When you explain your financial situation, he will probably put you on a payment plan that you can handle. If he's a jerk, he gives the judgement to the collector and they try to garnish your wages or property. That is the gamble you take.
Ok, all that said, what do you do now?
The cease and desist letter to the collection agency will stop those calls and letters. Next, send a letter to the original creditor making an offer to pay. But DEMAND that in exchange for paying off your debt, they must remove all negative reports from your credit history. They MUST note on your records that the account is PAID IN FULL and NO LATE PAYMENTS. Otherwise, what is the point of paying them? You will still have a bad credit history PLUS you will be broke! If they don't want to work with you, then let them sue you. Send these letters by certified mail, and keep a copy. It will help your case in court by showing that you did attempt to negotiate with them.
I am not a lawyer or a credit counsoler. I am someone who has been down this road and have counsoled many others.
If you need any other advice or encouragement, feel free to contact me.
GET ARMED! READ THE LINKS BELOW!What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
Depending on where u are from, they may or may not offer this. its called a bond. not a savings bond like your probably thinking. You can try and look them up online but i dont think u are going to have any luck because its a new thing. its for people that dont really have a lot of money. say you wanted a 20,000 bond, u can get one and only pay 200 bucks a month for it, therefore u can pay off ur credit and save money for ur family and still only pay 200 bucks a month. now, one catch, not everyone can get a bond. go to your bank and ask them about MONEY BONDS. you need to qualify however cause not just any joe shmoe can walk in there and get one. you need to need it for something specific, like your situation and where its for your credit to support ur family, they will accept u. believe me, if your credit gets messed up, your life is pretty much ruined, u will not find a home anywhere.
I HOPE THIS HELPED... AND GOOD LUCK
Working in NYC? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am 22 years old Asian girl. I am studying in Washington DC. I will graduate and leave my current job in June. I want to pursue for non-profits or academia (higher education) career in NYC. I have been to NYC 5 years ago just to travel.
What do you think? How is the job markets in NYC?Working in NYC? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
By the way you are typing, you are either using a translator from a different language or speak very poor english.
If I am correct, the language barrier will be very difficult.
However, since you ARE a college graduate, you will be able to find some sort of a job.Working in NYC? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
My family lives in the greater NYC area. Working in the city is tough. I have to ask have you been networking? Any contacts you make now could be essential in finding a job. Finding a place to live in the city can be even daunting than finding a job. I've seen rabbit hutch apartments in dicey neighborhoods going for 3k a month and I told that was a bargain.
One of my sisters works in Mid-town Manhattan and she commutes 90 minutes each way to Scotch Plains NJ. It's the only way she can afford to work in the city and she has an executive position.
If your making under 50k life is very hard in the city. Under a 100k you'll spent 80% of your money on rent, taxes and food.
Shop around, there are other cities in the country. I still hear good things about cities like Denver, Seattle and Philadelpia
Look into Insurance companies like Health First, HIP, etc. They continually need people to work with the large Chinese community. You can also look on Craigslist.org.
You took offense at the comment about your English. It isn't too bad, but it is noticable and you may want to work on it. Good Luck.
I am asian too,I am in NYC,but I am unemployed now.I never been in college,and never took any courses.I was in the US Army for six years.I am trying to find a job as well.roc natural beauty tips
What do you think? How is the job markets in NYC?Working in NYC? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
By the way you are typing, you are either using a translator from a different language or speak very poor english.
If I am correct, the language barrier will be very difficult.
However, since you ARE a college graduate, you will be able to find some sort of a job.Working in NYC? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
My family lives in the greater NYC area. Working in the city is tough. I have to ask have you been networking? Any contacts you make now could be essential in finding a job. Finding a place to live in the city can be even daunting than finding a job. I've seen rabbit hutch apartments in dicey neighborhoods going for 3k a month and I told that was a bargain.
One of my sisters works in Mid-town Manhattan and she commutes 90 minutes each way to Scotch Plains NJ. It's the only way she can afford to work in the city and she has an executive position.
If your making under 50k life is very hard in the city. Under a 100k you'll spent 80% of your money on rent, taxes and food.
Shop around, there are other cities in the country. I still hear good things about cities like Denver, Seattle and Philadelpia
Look into Insurance companies like Health First, HIP, etc. They continually need people to work with the large Chinese community. You can also look on Craigslist.org.
You took offense at the comment about your English. It isn't too bad, but it is noticable and you may want to work on it. Good Luck.
I am asian too,I am in NYC,but I am unemployed now.I never been in college,and never took any courses.I was in the US Army for six years.I am trying to find a job as well.
What is the best piece of advice you have received on yahoo answers?
be honest !!!!What is the best piece of advice you have received on yahoo answers?
i don't remember , but i can give you one through my site , check it out --%26gt;www.tagworld.com/bronzekkWhat is the best piece of advice you have received on yahoo answers?
don't stay up late doing yahoo answers
Someone told me to crawl into the hole I came from and ******** die!
to kick the habit of answering yahoo questions....
Get off of Yahoo answers.....I could do a lot more with my time!!!
Your weird deal with it!
I don't know. I guess it was to bang my boyfriend on his brithday
About FRIENDSHIP.
~~~what a true friend are~~~
cover your mouth when you cough.
well someone told i should kill my girlfriend instead of just breaking up with her...mmmm.. now shes under the porch... ha
none. i have given advices, though.
i don't remember , but i can give you one through my site , check it out --%26gt;www.tagworld.com/bronzekkWhat is the best piece of advice you have received on yahoo answers?
don't stay up late doing yahoo answers
Someone told me to crawl into the hole I came from and ******** die!
to kick the habit of answering yahoo questions....
Get off of Yahoo answers.....I could do a lot more with my time!!!
Your weird deal with it!
I don't know. I guess it was to bang my boyfriend on his brithday
About FRIENDSHIP.
~~~what a true friend are~~~
cover your mouth when you cough.
well someone told i should kill my girlfriend instead of just breaking up with her...mmmm.. now shes under the porch... ha
none. i have given advices, though.
What is the one best piece of travel advice you were given?
It was, ';Always buy good travel insurance.';
Health crises in a foreign land and emergency trip interruptions are the two most expensive risks to a good trip.
I would add that you should get your travel insurance from a source separate from your transport arrangements to avoid any conflicts of interest.
To explore the subject of travel insurance go to a neat website at http://www.wavehelp.com/travel-medical/i鈥?/a>
Best wishes.What is the one best piece of travel advice you were given?
with all of these new restrictions: pack lightlyWhat is the one best piece of travel advice you were given?
Absolutely sarah b - my motto when travelling is to always check the 3 p's:
plane ticket
purse
passport
and of course ALWAYS take out travel insurance, don't drink the water and remember that you are a guest in someone else's country, so behave accordingly.
So long as you have got your passport, ticket and money, everything else is incidental.
Always keep a small amount of US dollars stashed in your luggage. They are accepted everywhere and so, if the worst happens, and you have your wallet, money belt, travellers cheques etc stolen, then you have some money you can fall back on until you can arrange alternative funding.
Couple Things
Safety, Always be aware of your surroundings.
It is unrealistic to not have cash on you, especially in market areas. Split it up, a little in each of your front pockets, a little in one of those pouches that tuck inside your shirt - wherever you can think of. Just know how much you have.
Be outgoing, even if you are usually not. People love to talk. If Americans have pride in our county, some countries take pride in everything - family, food, architecture, love, nature, work - all at once and depending on how you grew up, some don't really know what that is like until you are in the middle of it.
Write things down. It doesn't have to be extensive, your traveling and tired at the end of the day but it goes a long way to help remember long after your back to your daily routine...Have Fun
travel light, and keep medicine and money in two different locations.
When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Soak up as much local culture and cuisine as you can. If you go to McDonald's and order burgers and a coke you better be visiting America.
If you spent thousands on air fair and hundreds on hotel rooms, then it makes sense to splurge a bit on events, purchases and meals. If you don't and have second thoughts, it's a long expensive trip back.
Carry an empty wallet full of useless credit cards and a couple of small bills as a decoy.
Always carry cash.
Get to know the culture where you are travelling.
If you travel to a foreign country, don't try and bring all your home country customs with you. Immerse yourself in the culture, food and customs of the place you visit. You'll be better liked and learn so much more than if you try to find the ';American'; style hotels, restaurants, and tours.
Branch out and be flexible.
Oh, and from my own experience, pack some large ziploc bags in your luggage. They are light and come in increidbly useful, whether it's to pick and save seashells, take extra food from the restaurant, or protect your passport from water damage.
Don't!! Just lock the gate, turn off the phone ringer, and let the newspapers pile up.... best vacation I ever had..
Don't travel alone.
Bring less stuff but bring more money.
don;t carry to much cash. Take a debit or credit card. If you must carry a lot of cash wear a small pouch around your neck and tuck it in the front of your shirt so it can't be seen.
Health crises in a foreign land and emergency trip interruptions are the two most expensive risks to a good trip.
I would add that you should get your travel insurance from a source separate from your transport arrangements to avoid any conflicts of interest.
To explore the subject of travel insurance go to a neat website at http://www.wavehelp.com/travel-medical/i鈥?/a>
Best wishes.What is the one best piece of travel advice you were given?
with all of these new restrictions: pack lightlyWhat is the one best piece of travel advice you were given?
Absolutely sarah b - my motto when travelling is to always check the 3 p's:
plane ticket
purse
passport
and of course ALWAYS take out travel insurance, don't drink the water and remember that you are a guest in someone else's country, so behave accordingly.
So long as you have got your passport, ticket and money, everything else is incidental.
Always keep a small amount of US dollars stashed in your luggage. They are accepted everywhere and so, if the worst happens, and you have your wallet, money belt, travellers cheques etc stolen, then you have some money you can fall back on until you can arrange alternative funding.
Couple Things
Safety, Always be aware of your surroundings.
It is unrealistic to not have cash on you, especially in market areas. Split it up, a little in each of your front pockets, a little in one of those pouches that tuck inside your shirt - wherever you can think of. Just know how much you have.
Be outgoing, even if you are usually not. People love to talk. If Americans have pride in our county, some countries take pride in everything - family, food, architecture, love, nature, work - all at once and depending on how you grew up, some don't really know what that is like until you are in the middle of it.
Write things down. It doesn't have to be extensive, your traveling and tired at the end of the day but it goes a long way to help remember long after your back to your daily routine...Have Fun
travel light, and keep medicine and money in two different locations.
When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Soak up as much local culture and cuisine as you can. If you go to McDonald's and order burgers and a coke you better be visiting America.
If you spent thousands on air fair and hundreds on hotel rooms, then it makes sense to splurge a bit on events, purchases and meals. If you don't and have second thoughts, it's a long expensive trip back.
Carry an empty wallet full of useless credit cards and a couple of small bills as a decoy.
Always carry cash.
Get to know the culture where you are travelling.
If you travel to a foreign country, don't try and bring all your home country customs with you. Immerse yourself in the culture, food and customs of the place you visit. You'll be better liked and learn so much more than if you try to find the ';American'; style hotels, restaurants, and tours.
Branch out and be flexible.
Oh, and from my own experience, pack some large ziploc bags in your luggage. They are light and come in increidbly useful, whether it's to pick and save seashells, take extra food from the restaurant, or protect your passport from water damage.
Don't!! Just lock the gate, turn off the phone ringer, and let the newspapers pile up.... best vacation I ever had..
Don't travel alone.
Bring less stuff but bring more money.
don;t carry to much cash. Take a debit or credit card. If you must carry a lot of cash wear a small pouch around your neck and tuck it in the front of your shirt so it can't be seen.
What was the best advice you were ever given?
Keep an open mind and keep learning.What was the best advice you were ever given?
Was advised by a senior financial advisor (female) to always keep my emotional and financial life separate - it has served me very well!What was the best advice you were ever given?
blinker BEFORE brakes
Don't sweat the small stuff. It's all small stuff.
Do not expect anything from anyone
I was given ,good advice from a friend years ago, regarding work options. it worked out spot on. I have thanked her a load of times.
someone gave me this advice, referring to myself feeling upset:
*Hug*
Also, try this:
Eat a marshmallow. As you do so; say to yourself out loud, ';I'm going to eat a marshmallow.';
I don't think there's anybody on the planet who can stay sad while saying/doing that.
I've never been given any advice that is actually useful or workable. Most advice is based on tired clich茅s.
Someone being understanding and thoughtful of a situation in which you need support at a particular time is priceless and should be thoroughly appreciated.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you
don't do to other what u don't want others to do unto you
Live life to the fullest, you' ve only got one life to live. There is no success without hardwork , so if you want to achieve goals in life , you must invest dedication and discipline.
yesterday was the best advice
Study hard (i've been getting good grades)
Visit my Yahoo 360 page and post a feedback please.
Always be the first to say sorry even if it was he who did wrong.
When my brother told me that I thought he was crazy, but it works. Even if I don't actually say sorry, I make sure i give my man an enabling environment for him to make up for his wrong doings.
missing creap
Be wary of your actions %26amp; your words...';What goes around, comes around.';
And, do not hold onto anything that you do not want as part of you.
They both were wise notes...thanks Dad!!!
Be nice to people because you never know when you might need/work with them
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
For everything you do in life, there is a price you gotta pay
the first part of wisdom is admitting you are stupid
Don't talk to strangers..........
Don't eat yellow snow.
words to live by
Was advised by a senior financial advisor (female) to always keep my emotional and financial life separate - it has served me very well!What was the best advice you were ever given?
blinker BEFORE brakes
Don't sweat the small stuff. It's all small stuff.
Do not expect anything from anyone
I was given ,good advice from a friend years ago, regarding work options. it worked out spot on. I have thanked her a load of times.
someone gave me this advice, referring to myself feeling upset:
*Hug*
Also, try this:
Eat a marshmallow. As you do so; say to yourself out loud, ';I'm going to eat a marshmallow.';
I don't think there's anybody on the planet who can stay sad while saying/doing that.
I've never been given any advice that is actually useful or workable. Most advice is based on tired clich茅s.
Someone being understanding and thoughtful of a situation in which you need support at a particular time is priceless and should be thoroughly appreciated.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you
don't do to other what u don't want others to do unto you
Live life to the fullest, you' ve only got one life to live. There is no success without hardwork , so if you want to achieve goals in life , you must invest dedication and discipline.
yesterday was the best advice
Study hard (i've been getting good grades)
Visit my Yahoo 360 page and post a feedback please.
Always be the first to say sorry even if it was he who did wrong.
When my brother told me that I thought he was crazy, but it works. Even if I don't actually say sorry, I make sure i give my man an enabling environment for him to make up for his wrong doings.
missing creap
Be wary of your actions %26amp; your words...';What goes around, comes around.';
And, do not hold onto anything that you do not want as part of you.
They both were wise notes...thanks Dad!!!
Be nice to people because you never know when you might need/work with them
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
For everything you do in life, there is a price you gotta pay
the first part of wisdom is admitting you are stupid
Don't talk to strangers..........
Don't eat yellow snow.
words to live by
What is the best advice you have ever recieved ?
Who gave it to you?What is the best advice you have ever recieved ?
Good things come to those who wait...from my dad. I think he's right :)What is the best advice you have ever recieved ?
I've received so many advices but here are 4 I keep in mind:
I heard a pastor once say:
You cant live life by emotions.
I heard a lady once say:
You cant spend your life mad at people, otherwise your heart will be mad a the world.
A Professor once told me:
Getting your heart broken is the best thing that will ever happen to you. If it hasnt happen, arange it to happen. You will never be the same again. You will gain confidence. You will learn so much about yourself. You will grow.
Last year a lady I was working with told me:
Its ok to let go if it doen't feel right. When u meet the one you'll know. Make sure you can jst sit down and be calm with the person. If you can jst sit down and play board games because when you get old, thats what you are going to be do anyways.
NOW THUMBS UP TO YOU! GREAT, INSIGHTFUL QUESTION!
it's not the best but,
';being shy never gets you anywhere.';
my spanish teacher.
you gotta stand up for yourself because the people in this world will walk all over you if you let it...
one of my cross country/track coach's advice:
';GET SOME!';
haha
This guy once told me when I was going through a breakup with someone that wouldn't marry me: Laura, it's like you keep going to the hardware store to buy panties. They just don't carry them there!
you have wasted enough of your life,dont waste any more,i have lost one son i dont want to lose the other,my mam.peAce.
When you worry about what people think of you, you'd be surprised at how rarely they actually do. -Dad
Just keep breathing.....
I think I thought of it myself actually, turns out to be good advice...it got to here! lol :)
';never ask advice - wise men dont need it, and fools wont listen';
Always work at your own pace, my dad
If you want it go for it!
to believe in myself and always tell the truth no matter what...my dad..
not to hang around some ppl. and a teacher did
go with your gut
Trust no one..
My pappy
Good things come to those who wait...from my dad. I think he's right :)What is the best advice you have ever recieved ?
I've received so many advices but here are 4 I keep in mind:
I heard a pastor once say:
You cant live life by emotions.
I heard a lady once say:
You cant spend your life mad at people, otherwise your heart will be mad a the world.
A Professor once told me:
Getting your heart broken is the best thing that will ever happen to you. If it hasnt happen, arange it to happen. You will never be the same again. You will gain confidence. You will learn so much about yourself. You will grow.
Last year a lady I was working with told me:
Its ok to let go if it doen't feel right. When u meet the one you'll know. Make sure you can jst sit down and be calm with the person. If you can jst sit down and play board games because when you get old, thats what you are going to be do anyways.
NOW THUMBS UP TO YOU! GREAT, INSIGHTFUL QUESTION!
it's not the best but,
';being shy never gets you anywhere.';
my spanish teacher.
you gotta stand up for yourself because the people in this world will walk all over you if you let it...
one of my cross country/track coach's advice:
';GET SOME!';
haha
This guy once told me when I was going through a breakup with someone that wouldn't marry me: Laura, it's like you keep going to the hardware store to buy panties. They just don't carry them there!
you have wasted enough of your life,dont waste any more,i have lost one son i dont want to lose the other,my mam.peAce.
When you worry about what people think of you, you'd be surprised at how rarely they actually do. -Dad
Just keep breathing.....
I think I thought of it myself actually, turns out to be good advice...it got to here! lol :)
';never ask advice - wise men dont need it, and fools wont listen';
Always work at your own pace, my dad
If you want it go for it!
to believe in myself and always tell the truth no matter what...my dad..
not to hang around some ppl. and a teacher did
go with your gut
Trust no one..
My pappy
What's the best advice you can give me?
...never take yourself too seriously for when you do, your face gets beyond recognition and your soul lies heavily in the bowels of despairWhat's the best advice you can give me?
your avatar makes me think light is hitting it wierd. So i move around alot. Stays the same and gets me made for unknown reasonsWhat's the best advice you can give me?
Be loyal to the ones you truly truly love. Loyalty has no price, it makes you a better person.
If there were any advice I could give you...sunscreen would be it.
Stop holding your breath, your face has turned blue
be really rude to the people you don't like :) i do and it works great for making them go away!
change your avatar pic it is creepin me out!
Live, Laugh and Love.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
dont believe all the hype
;)
eat some pie
your avatar makes me think light is hitting it wierd. So i move around alot. Stays the same and gets me made for unknown reasonsWhat's the best advice you can give me?
Be loyal to the ones you truly truly love. Loyalty has no price, it makes you a better person.
If there were any advice I could give you...sunscreen would be it.
Stop holding your breath, your face has turned blue
be really rude to the people you don't like :) i do and it works great for making them go away!
change your avatar pic it is creepin me out!
Live, Laugh and Love.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
dont believe all the hype
;)
eat some pie
What is the best advice ANYONE has ever given you ABOUT love?
this isnt only for love but it works. ';Relationships are like a game of chess. One wrong move and you can blow the whole thing. But it isnt over until you hear check-mate.'; Sorta weird but true.What is the best advice ANYONE has ever given you ABOUT love?
time heal all woundsWhat is the best advice ANYONE has ever given you ABOUT love?
Take love day by day and something good will come out of it.
The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference.
Choose your words wisely, as you can never take them back, no matter how many ';I'm sorry';s you say....
That Love doesn't hurt it gives
It is like a knife. It can cut you deeply enough to kill such as stab to the chest. It is like a knife. It can cut you on a rattlesnake bite and have the venom sucked out thus giving you life and something to live for.
Love might hurt but in the end it was worth the hurt to learn from it!!
Love urself first.....
.What is love?
First Corinthians - Chapter 13:4-8
4. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8. Love never fails.
Proverbs - Chapter 10:12
12. Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.
John - Chapter 15:13
13. Greater love has no one that this, that one lay down his life for his friends.
Romans - Chapter 13:10
10. Loves does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
The First Letter of John - Chapter 3:18
18. Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.
The First Letter of John - Chapter 4:18-19
18. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The man who fears is not made perfect in love.
19. We love because he first loved us.
To be able to love you need to love yourself...then always keep your gaurd up.
I don't know, but here's my advice:
Love isn't about being selfish. If is was, it wouldn't be called love, now would it?
remember theses words --YES MAM
';Every song ends, but that's no reason not to enjoy the music.';
Love is the only good thing we have on earth so don't give up
be honest and true
never give up
Well my friend i'm a relationship answerer a pro. i give the best answerers.
if you need some email me at hitches_help@yahoo.com
GO and GET F.U.C.K.E.D!
love hates
You can't give love to anyone else until you truly and unconditionally love yourself. And you can't expect anyone else to love you if you don't love yourself first.roc natural beauty tips
time heal all woundsWhat is the best advice ANYONE has ever given you ABOUT love?
Take love day by day and something good will come out of it.
The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference.
Choose your words wisely, as you can never take them back, no matter how many ';I'm sorry';s you say....
That Love doesn't hurt it gives
It is like a knife. It can cut you deeply enough to kill such as stab to the chest. It is like a knife. It can cut you on a rattlesnake bite and have the venom sucked out thus giving you life and something to live for.
Love might hurt but in the end it was worth the hurt to learn from it!!
Love urself first.....
.What is love?
First Corinthians - Chapter 13:4-8
4. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8. Love never fails.
Proverbs - Chapter 10:12
12. Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.
John - Chapter 15:13
13. Greater love has no one that this, that one lay down his life for his friends.
Romans - Chapter 13:10
10. Loves does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
The First Letter of John - Chapter 3:18
18. Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.
The First Letter of John - Chapter 4:18-19
18. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The man who fears is not made perfect in love.
19. We love because he first loved us.
To be able to love you need to love yourself...then always keep your gaurd up.
I don't know, but here's my advice:
Love isn't about being selfish. If is was, it wouldn't be called love, now would it?
remember theses words --YES MAM
';Every song ends, but that's no reason not to enjoy the music.';
Love is the only good thing we have on earth so don't give up
be honest and true
never give up
Well my friend i'm a relationship answerer a pro. i give the best answerers.
if you need some email me at hitches_help@yahoo.com
GO and GET F.U.C.K.E.D!
love hates
You can't give love to anyone else until you truly and unconditionally love yourself. And you can't expect anyone else to love you if you don't love yourself first.
What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
a collections agency contacted me about some funds iowe them and demanded that i pay within a certain time period i dont have that much money and have a family to feed and offered them a payment of as much as i could afford per month but they said they would not accept the payment unless it was a certain amount they were requesting what do i do now?What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
Ignore the greedy fucks.
If you ignore it they have two options
1. They will leave you alone and just make phones calls-Don't answer..or mail you...throw it away
or 2. They ill sue you, but i doubt it (Because it costs more than the debt is worth usually)
If they do sue, go to court and show the judge you have no money, i can tell you, i doubt they will even show up and the judge will hopefully see your situation..considering you OFFERED something.
They don't care, they just want the whole amount. These companies buy old debts for pennies on the dollar and use extortion on people.
If your debts were credit cards..forget the wankers
FOOD is more important then some unsecured debt.What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
I strongly suggest you to advertise a garage sale in your local newspaper and sell everything you have (Including your bed) and pay them as soon as possible.
You don't fool around with collection agencies.
THEY WILL BREAK IN YOUR HOUSE AND STEAL EVERYTHING YOU HAVE (Legally)
I am sure the owner of the business that holds your debt has a family to feed too.
collectors job is to make you pay so they can get a bigger fatter paycheck. they get commissions on your payments! they even have contests with bonuses if someone can get the most $$ in house in a day. If someone hasnt been able to collect the debt and someone does...it's a fun fest in the agency. dont let them bully you. you dont even have to talk to them or negotiate. They wont sue you unless you owe ALOT of money and it's illegal for them to threaten you and not follow thru it. BEFORE you talk each time they call ask them if it's ok if you RECORD the conversation. they'll crap their drawers and be on their best behavior. alot of states require the collector to be licensed...and the agency of course.
If you cannot pay....dont!
They will just mark your account as not collectible which is like a slap in the face to the agency and they'll sell it fast. or say ';im sorry u have the wrong number'; when they ask for you. say you just got that number and are getting alot of calls for that person. They'll mark the account wrong number and sell it to another agency.
After the 7 yrs it falls off your credit report and they can eat crap before you should pay the account. wont hurt you. get a po box and mark on any collection notices ';return to sender not at this address'; if they come to your house addy.
Make them shake their heads in wonder.
Sorry to hear about your predicament. I hope i can give you some useful advice. If you find that you cannot afford this payment, tell them again in writing, keeping a copy for yourself. Offer them a standing order of this amount. Tell them that this will be the minimum ammount. Now if this fails to please them. go see the C.A.B. they may be able to put you in touch with an debt agengy who can act on your behalf. Normally, If you do this they van reduce your figure even more. Good Luck
Ignore the greedy fucks.
If you ignore it they have two options
1. They will leave you alone and just make phones calls-Don't answer..or mail you...throw it away
or 2. They ill sue you, but i doubt it (Because it costs more than the debt is worth usually)
If they do sue, go to court and show the judge you have no money, i can tell you, i doubt they will even show up and the judge will hopefully see your situation..considering you OFFERED something.
They don't care, they just want the whole amount. These companies buy old debts for pennies on the dollar and use extortion on people.
If your debts were credit cards..forget the wankers
FOOD is more important then some unsecured debt.What is the best advice on this matter (CREDIT)???
I strongly suggest you to advertise a garage sale in your local newspaper and sell everything you have (Including your bed) and pay them as soon as possible.
You don't fool around with collection agencies.
THEY WILL BREAK IN YOUR HOUSE AND STEAL EVERYTHING YOU HAVE (Legally)
I am sure the owner of the business that holds your debt has a family to feed too.
collectors job is to make you pay so they can get a bigger fatter paycheck. they get commissions on your payments! they even have contests with bonuses if someone can get the most $$ in house in a day. If someone hasnt been able to collect the debt and someone does...it's a fun fest in the agency. dont let them bully you. you dont even have to talk to them or negotiate. They wont sue you unless you owe ALOT of money and it's illegal for them to threaten you and not follow thru it. BEFORE you talk each time they call ask them if it's ok if you RECORD the conversation. they'll crap their drawers and be on their best behavior. alot of states require the collector to be licensed...and the agency of course.
If you cannot pay....dont!
They will just mark your account as not collectible which is like a slap in the face to the agency and they'll sell it fast. or say ';im sorry u have the wrong number'; when they ask for you. say you just got that number and are getting alot of calls for that person. They'll mark the account wrong number and sell it to another agency.
After the 7 yrs it falls off your credit report and they can eat crap before you should pay the account. wont hurt you. get a po box and mark on any collection notices ';return to sender not at this address'; if they come to your house addy.
Make them shake their heads in wonder.
Sorry to hear about your predicament. I hope i can give you some useful advice. If you find that you cannot afford this payment, tell them again in writing, keeping a copy for yourself. Offer them a standing order of this amount. Tell them that this will be the minimum ammount. Now if this fails to please them. go see the C.A.B. they may be able to put you in touch with an debt agengy who can act on your behalf. Normally, If you do this they van reduce your figure even more. Good Luck
What is the best advice you have ever been given?
Believe in yourself......
....also make time to meditate!
:o)What is the best advice you have ever been given?
when in doubt....wait!What is the best advice you have ever been given?
Pull your head in!!!
:)
abortion is cowardice
to my bestfriend and she is now a happy mother of a 6 year old boy
If you're out at night and on your bike, don't forget to wear white . . .
Nobody gives a **** about you no matter what they say. We as a race look after ourselves first and foremost and other people are just there to interfere with your quest for happiness. Push everyone aside who have nothing to offer you and expect the same from everyone else. Most importantly...never get too attached to anyone...that way when they dissapoint you, it's alot easier to handle.
You only have one life - live it!
To always treat my significant other like a King, because that will automatically make me a Queen.
I will never forget those words.
don t listen to anyone's advice.
everybody is selfish and no one is good intended
You can't understand women and don't even try
to save my money
....also make time to meditate!
:o)What is the best advice you have ever been given?
when in doubt....wait!What is the best advice you have ever been given?
Pull your head in!!!
:)
abortion is cowardice
to my bestfriend and she is now a happy mother of a 6 year old boy
If you're out at night and on your bike, don't forget to wear white . . .
Nobody gives a **** about you no matter what they say. We as a race look after ourselves first and foremost and other people are just there to interfere with your quest for happiness. Push everyone aside who have nothing to offer you and expect the same from everyone else. Most importantly...never get too attached to anyone...that way when they dissapoint you, it's alot easier to handle.
You only have one life - live it!
To always treat my significant other like a King, because that will automatically make me a Queen.
I will never forget those words.
don t listen to anyone's advice.
everybody is selfish and no one is good intended
You can't understand women and don't even try
to save my money
What's the best advice your father ever gave you?
';Do what you want, and don't worry about everybody else.';
';People make mistakes.';What's the best advice your father ever gave you?
';Never rely on one person to make you happy. If that one person goes away how will you be happy? And who can you rely on?';What's the best advice your father ever gave you?
exactly :]
My father told me right before he killed my mom in front of me is if you want something done right you have got to do it yourself.
And the worst part about this is im not making it up.
';Don't take any crap from anyone';
';You're just as important as anyone else in this world. Don't forget that';
R.I.P Daddy!
';take a shower';
thats literately the only advice he have me.
Ha he never gave me advice and I wouldnt take advice from a deadbeat anyway.
not really advice but he once told me....
'Even if there are many bad things about me, I hope you can pick at last one good about me for you to pass on'
:')
thanks dad........leg - end :D
If you get into a fight don't come home unless you won...
my father died 8 year's ago . . thank's
Giving me a package of condoms at fourteen.
wear a condom!!! ( dam i wish i would have listened...) hahaha :) j/k
';Live your own life!';
Relax and have a beer...lol...and think things through.
growing up my dad told me ';i dont care what you do, just dont get caught';
He said ';Hurry up and grow. I'm sick of paying for you';
lol he sucks at advise ill stick to my mom
';People make mistakes.';What's the best advice your father ever gave you?
';Never rely on one person to make you happy. If that one person goes away how will you be happy? And who can you rely on?';What's the best advice your father ever gave you?
exactly :]
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My father told me right before he killed my mom in front of me is if you want something done right you have got to do it yourself.
And the worst part about this is im not making it up.
';Don't take any crap from anyone';
';You're just as important as anyone else in this world. Don't forget that';
R.I.P Daddy!
';take a shower';
thats literately the only advice he have me.
Ha he never gave me advice and I wouldnt take advice from a deadbeat anyway.
not really advice but he once told me....
'Even if there are many bad things about me, I hope you can pick at last one good about me for you to pass on'
:')
thanks dad........leg - end :D
If you get into a fight don't come home unless you won...
my father died 8 year's ago . . thank's
Giving me a package of condoms at fourteen.
wear a condom!!! ( dam i wish i would have listened...) hahaha :) j/k
';Live your own life!';
Relax and have a beer...lol...and think things through.
growing up my dad told me ';i dont care what you do, just dont get caught';
He said ';Hurry up and grow. I'm sick of paying for you';
lol he sucks at advise ill stick to my mom
What is the best advice a married could have?
Here ya go ladies:
http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/CollegeAndFamily/SuddenlySingle/SuddenlySingleDyn.aspx?cp-documentid=9498245What is the best advice a married could have?
HOn.... that is rather depressing.
I would like to ask you something. What are you gonna tell your kids about marriage when the time comes? Like are you gonna tell them not to get married no matter what? I would be very interested in your views on what to tell the kids . My last kid got married about two weeks ago. Now both my boys are hitched and seem to just love it. Of course the newlywed does but even the one who has been with his lady for four years so far does. It makes me sad to think that they might end up as unhappy as you seem to be. Of course I have a hard time believing you are as unhappy as you talk. My advice to ';marrieds'; would be to always talk to your mate. Never assume that they are doing well. Make it your business to know how they are feeling everyday. Always say ';I love you'; before they leave for the day. My widowed sister found out that those words mean a lot when the unthinkable happens and you lose your mate in this lifetime suddenly. Hers died in a terrible concrete truck accident one friday afternoon. She remembers his words to her before he left that morning. Always make them...';I love you';. What is the best advice a married could have?
Your a pretty angry guy,I think someone has done something bad to you in the past,a product of a bad marriage maybe.I did read that article a couple of days ago,it was alright,it was all common sense stuff though,ya know things that you would have done anyway even if you didnt read the article
Honesty, Trust And Lots Of Happiness And Make Lots Of Love ,Love Each Other And Respect And Be Faith full And Don't Let Other Get Between You And Lots Of 鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏 LOVE LOVE LOVE 鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏!!!!!!!
Sex should be everyday and bank accounts should be seperate.
your sick and have a perverted idea about life.
Blow up dolls and hookers are not Ladies.
you are obviously bored, single, gay and lonley.
GET COUNSELING!
i aint gotta read that crap im single Yai Yai
http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/CollegeAndFamily/SuddenlySingle/SuddenlySingleDyn.aspx?cp-documentid=9498245What is the best advice a married could have?
HOn.... that is rather depressing.
I would like to ask you something. What are you gonna tell your kids about marriage when the time comes? Like are you gonna tell them not to get married no matter what? I would be very interested in your views on what to tell the kids . My last kid got married about two weeks ago. Now both my boys are hitched and seem to just love it. Of course the newlywed does but even the one who has been with his lady for four years so far does. It makes me sad to think that they might end up as unhappy as you seem to be. Of course I have a hard time believing you are as unhappy as you talk. My advice to ';marrieds'; would be to always talk to your mate. Never assume that they are doing well. Make it your business to know how they are feeling everyday. Always say ';I love you'; before they leave for the day. My widowed sister found out that those words mean a lot when the unthinkable happens and you lose your mate in this lifetime suddenly. Hers died in a terrible concrete truck accident one friday afternoon. She remembers his words to her before he left that morning. Always make them...';I love you';. What is the best advice a married could have?
Your a pretty angry guy,I think someone has done something bad to you in the past,a product of a bad marriage maybe.I did read that article a couple of days ago,it was alright,it was all common sense stuff though,ya know things that you would have done anyway even if you didnt read the article
Honesty, Trust And Lots Of Happiness And Make Lots Of Love ,Love Each Other And Respect And Be Faith full And Don't Let Other Get Between You And Lots Of 鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏 LOVE LOVE LOVE 鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏!!!!!!!
Sex should be everyday and bank accounts should be seperate.
your sick and have a perverted idea about life.
Blow up dolls and hookers are not Ladies.
you are obviously bored, single, gay and lonley.
GET COUNSELING!
i aint gotta read that crap im single Yai Yai
What's the best advice you think you have to offer someone/the world?
Never underestimate the stupidity of the general publicWhat's the best advice you think you have to offer someone/the world?
always have faith...
be truthful...
live each day as if it was your first %26amp; last...
and yours would be...What's the best advice you think you have to offer someone/the world?
The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed. Perhaps it should be added that either the man or the woman thus deeply bound in lifelong friendship who seeks marriage must find a still rarer man or woman to wed, to make such a three cornered comradeship a permanent success.
How to make a pitcher of Mojitos!
[Bacardi Rum, lime, club soda, simple-sugar syrup, and fresh mint leaves!] Stirred, not shaken!
don't take anybody else's advice, do what you think is right. If you do take advice and things go wrong, you'll be blaming that person, this way you'll stay friends with everybody.
Live and let live, and mind your own damn bee's wax.
Don't get married when you're only 20!!!!!
Wow, I'm on a bit of a rampage today with all that, sorry! lol
IGNORES IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO LEARN .JESSE
Be yourself
If you get divorced and your kid gets to stay with you don't make him hate his mum or his dad!This is what my mum taught me(I was raised only by her),and no matter how bad my dad treated me when I was little,my mum taught me not ot hate him and now he's one of my best friends!
always be yourself and try to live your life to the fullest. try not to have low self esteem and always believe in yourself (not like me)
Wait an hour after eating to go swimming
I borrowed the line from my favorite highways song Your making it come alive. and it says ';I've finally come to realize that we are all the same
If there's nothing left to lose then there's every to gain';
and it really worked for my friend when I told it to him. He realized that sense he lost everything he really did have everything to gain.
live life to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised to you
Um... live each day as if it were your last?
always have faith...
be truthful...
live each day as if it was your first %26amp; last...
and yours would be...What's the best advice you think you have to offer someone/the world?
The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed. Perhaps it should be added that either the man or the woman thus deeply bound in lifelong friendship who seeks marriage must find a still rarer man or woman to wed, to make such a three cornered comradeship a permanent success.
How to make a pitcher of Mojitos!
[Bacardi Rum, lime, club soda, simple-sugar syrup, and fresh mint leaves!] Stirred, not shaken!
don't take anybody else's advice, do what you think is right. If you do take advice and things go wrong, you'll be blaming that person, this way you'll stay friends with everybody.
Live and let live, and mind your own damn bee's wax.
Don't get married when you're only 20!!!!!
Wow, I'm on a bit of a rampage today with all that, sorry! lol
IGNORES IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO LEARN .JESSE
Be yourself
If you get divorced and your kid gets to stay with you don't make him hate his mum or his dad!This is what my mum taught me(I was raised only by her),and no matter how bad my dad treated me when I was little,my mum taught me not ot hate him and now he's one of my best friends!
always be yourself and try to live your life to the fullest. try not to have low self esteem and always believe in yourself (not like me)
Wait an hour after eating to go swimming
I borrowed the line from my favorite highways song Your making it come alive. and it says ';I've finally come to realize that we are all the same
If there's nothing left to lose then there's every to gain';
and it really worked for my friend when I told it to him. He realized that sense he lost everything he really did have everything to gain.
live life to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised to you
Um... live each day as if it were your last?
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