Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

I am dating this guys for a while now. Recently, I went to his myspace and facebook. He wrote over 20 poems about a girl, he loved.





I think, she left him becuase of distance and situation; however, he seems to express strong feelings for her.





What should I do? Do you think he still love her? Should I back off?





Thank you.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I would be okay with it until we started getting into a more serious, long-lasting relationship. At that time, I would ask that he please remove them. I would feel that as long as he is publicly displaying them, he is hoping she would see them and think he still cares. At that point in your relationship, you should be able to talk this over maturely.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Wow, a guy writing 20 poems about a girl that dumped him and publicly displaying them online? Red flag!
GOD !! that's horrible !! I know what it is like been in a situation like that one ( I mean .. the guys one) well !! I will tell you something !!! if he is with you is because of something !!!!!!!! usually guys don't do anything they do not want to do, then I think he is with you because he loves you !!! maybe he still love that girl, but I seriously think he is forgetting about her, maybe its been slow, but I bet you he is, so I would not back off


you can ask him too !!!
I have been in this guy's shoes! My girlfriend at the time, put a large distance between us. It forced my to GET OVER IT%26gt;.......in my own way. It actually helped me to get the 'ex' out of my head. If you expect your relationship to go ANYWHERE while he is in that mode.....you're probably mistaken. Good luck...........Been there.
When he moves past the feelings the poems will be removed. The only reason for having them there is to attract her, so make you decision knowing you will be number two until he gives up or she comes back.
He's in a lot of pain. Maybe you can help. It sounds like he could use some friends.
there is some feelings there obviously but it depends on when hes wrote them. if he opens up to talk to you on that past listen and dont judge
I would have to agree with all the people who say ';bad news'; to this one. I could be wrong though talk to this guy and ask him how he really feels about this girl ( you never know he could have wrote these a long time ago and just never deleted them.) I would be leery and be sure to pay attention for signs of not being 100% truthfull. sounds to me like he's still in love and it might not be the best time for you.
I would talk to him and ask him if he wants some space for a while to get over her. If you care about him you just have to talk to him.
how long ago was it??





I would think he is looking to express himself...which is gr8





give it time hun...then u will see if he has passions for u





GL
Depends on timing. If this was a recent occurence, then give him some space for at least a year.
hmmm...honestly i really dont want to be blunt or mean but i think considering the senario he really loves her more. my friend is in the SAME exact situation. its really hard not to get a girl/boyfriend when your one love moves away. if this doesn't sound right in this case, cause i have no way of knowing what type of guy ur dating, ask him very slowly or hint cause if ur straight to the point he might be offended or hurt. hope this helps. : )
It sounds like he's still hung up over her. If I were in your situation, I would probably get out now before getting too attached.
give him time to get over that girl get to know him and he'll do the same who knows he might end up liking u
Back off give him time and see
Were they recently written or old school stuff? It all depends on how long ago they were written I guess. I would ask him what they were about and base my answer off of that. Obviously if he has feelings for her (and you will be able to tell when you ask) then its time to back off and just be his friend until he comes to terms with things and realizes what an awesome girl he has standing next to him waiting for something more :-)
You need to ask him. This may have been some time ago and no longer applies. It also may be that he has feelings for her... He is the only one who can answer this question.





Ask him how he feels about you, and what he sees for his future. This will give you some indication.
He's still grieving for it.





Stick around, be a friend but don't be the rebound girl.





He'll get over it and then you can see what's what.
Go for it, he's with you for a reason. The past is the past.
When were they dated? If they were posted during the span of your relationship, he's probably not over her yet. It's hard to say definitively without seeing the precise wording.
ughh honey im in the same situations, guys are hard to read..but trust me, what you want to do, is talk to him, even just start out slow, tell him you think you know what his poems are about, let him know you are their for him no matter what, become good friends, and eventually tell him you want to be more than friends, and if he doesnt want to with you its ok, but you just had to let him know incase!