Need an advice of a leader (successful person). How do I do my best and be always the one/the best?

I'm starting to realize that i am not what i want to be.I see that one by one my beginnings fail and people who thought that i will be the best change their mind in favour of those whom i once have left behind.I feel that there's nothing I'm best in. I am quite ambitious but this quality starts to disappear. I feel that I'm becoming lazy and less determined.And I feel that my friends(it may sound strange but there is a competition between my friends and me) are becoming more and more respected and successful.At the same time I want to succeed in life.It's not that family is not important to me,but i want to find a good job and have everything - the best!


I'm more romantic inside but i can be cold,and i'm independent. And maybe i don't attract people much. But i want to be the best.(????)





I am invited to dance but i'm very much bad in it. We had only 1 rehearsal but I felt like a cow. If I refuse i may lose respect of the others, if i stay i will expirience great shame.What shouldNeed an advice of a leader (successful person). How do I do my best and be always the one/the best?
It is okay not to be the best at everything and the fact that u have remotely realized that this is happening , the sooner u will find the acceptance u need within yourself to move on and strive to be happy....





finding your spiritual purpose in life is more important than who u become or what u do for a living...being ambitious is okay but to find true happiness u must first be content with yourself as an individual, this will not only renew your spirit but give you ';purpose';, validity....





We are all unique in some many ways and have some much to offer the world, but sometimes we let society, others dictate how we are supposed to feel, whom we are supposed to be, what makes us as individuals truly happy...we lose our way





by finding your purpose you will become complacent and accept your role in life....best of luck to you....May u find spiritual PeaceNeed an advice of a leader (successful person). How do I do my best and be always the one/the best?
You have to know exactly what you want. Not just general like,';I wanna be successful';. You have to know what you want to do and have that goal in mind.Have a vision of yourself as a happy person and eventually that is who you will be.
You need to rethink what success really means.





There are many people in this world who, by some standards in society, are quite successful. They may have a good job, a nice home, and drive a nice car. Inside though they tend to be very unhappy people. For example, is Donald Trump successful? He's on his 3rd marriage and has had children with all three.





You have low self-esteem and no confidence. Some people are good at one thing and others are good but not great at several things. No matter how good you are there will always be someone better looking, smarter, and more efficient.





Competing against others is pointless. On any given day in any given situation, anyone could win. It's not a true measure of who or what you are. The true measure of success - what it is and how do you find it - is a question you may wish to discuss with a therapist.





You need to find out why you're not motivated and only a therapist dealing with deeply personal issues can help you with that.