You are not ready to be engaged because there are a trillion attractive girls just like that one who will even flirt with you from time to time. Break it off tell her you are not ready and come visit NYC.What do I do? I need some advice, I am engaged but am very attracted to my girlfriends best friend. ?
do you really need to be asking someone else for advice. If you are having doubts now then do both of you a favor and GET OUT! Marraige will only make things worse for you think of your feelings now x10. You shouldn't have feelings for another girl especially at this point in your relationship. You are obviously not in love so be honest with yourself and her. Also, think about the fact that this is your girlfriends best friend. If she is really a friend than she most likely will think you are a creep for even trying so find someone else to hook up with if you break it off!
It sounds like you are not ready to get married and that you probably are not meant to be with your girlfriend. One would hope that your girlfriend is the most beautiful girl you've ever met and that you feel lucky that she's marrying you. It sure doesn't sound that way to me. The grass is always greener on the other side so I wouldn't settle down until you aren't tempted by other women. I'd be mad if I was your girlfriend -- I bet SHE knows you're attracted to her girlfriend too. Not good......
dotn get married yet, obviously if you are thinkign about other women, especially her best friend, this will create problems, and can lead to affairs in the future . im in gr. 9 and even i know thta i couldnt go through a mirriage with a guy with this problem . think of how your girlfriend must feel, i mean dyou honestly think that it would be okay to get married with this problem ? try andd get over it, because marriage is a huge deal, and ask yourself if you really think you can see yourself with her bestfriend instead of her .. think about that . try going to a counsellor or something, to help get over this other chick .
Well if you're engaged...then it's actually your fiances best friend. That's besides the point though.
Ask yourself a few basic questions. Do you love your g/f? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her? Why did you ask her to marry you in the first place? Do you really want to lose her?
Also, thought I'd mention...attraction to anther woman...is normal. But you shouldn't confuse attraction with lust, or love. You must KNOW who you love, and the commitment you have made to that person. If you're not ready for that, then you should sit down with your g/f and have a talk.
step back a bit and give the engagement a break. get to know this new girl a bit and see if you are even compatable. i know i was engaged and had a longtime crush on a guy and it was mutual and i regret not giving him a chance since the engagement didnt work out and by that time he was already seeing someone he eventually married.
well if its ur gfs bff shes prolly not goin to date you.. because its an unwritten law... also.. how can u be engaged to someone your not completely and fully in love with?.. i would say that as bad as this is.. ur going to have to take a break and think about the wedding.. just some inner conflicts with yourself.. nothing she did.. etc.. and maybe give it a week just to calm down.. even talk to her friend then and be like. im just not sure etc.. and see what her bff has to say about it.. then if she starts saying that you and ur fiance are meant.. she doesnt like you.. if she starts saying .. well idk.. maybe u need to think on it.. she likes you..
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I think the best thing that you should do is tell your fiance the truth, that way there wont be any confusion and mistrust between you two.As far as the other woman goes,think about if its really worth ruining their friendship or not and the lingering feelings of anger and jealousy between the two friends.
You need to take some time away from your fiance and from the other girl and think about what you really want...you're probably just getting cold feet cuz you're having issues with your fiance and are looking for reassurance else where...just take a few days to think about it all and don't say anything to either of the girls...just think about what you really want...
Hi..u r going to marry veri soon,ask yrself if u don't love yr fiance y u ask her 4 marry? i think u n yr fiance hv been thru' alot den both of u will come to tis status...a wife n a girlfriend r veri diff,a wife can help u pull thru' alot of thing that is bad.a girlfriend can't reali do much 4 u..think back. u say u r veri attracted to her rite? ask yrself hw long can it last? in tis world no matter hw much u love each other or wifout him/her will die,NO. every couple hv problem,is d matter hw u both face it n slove it nt avoiding it..Don't do thing u might regret B4 u do anything think twice.
I would talk to your fiance! its important you talk to each other because if you start out bad it will end bad. don't waist your life with someone that makes you unhappy! you should talk to your fiance before the wedding and before you start a family. Also talk to the person you like. know where shes coming from then you can prioritize.
hope this helps good luck, remember to always follow your heart %26lt;3
you and your fiance are engaged for a reason. there is obviously something there. your getting cold feet and think its cuz ur attracted to her pretty friend. you need to focus on ur woman, you cant do that to your relationship, or ur girlfriends and her best friends.
If you don't feel you are positive you want to go through with your marriage, don't. You should be completely in love and devoted to the person you are marrying. Talk with your fiance too. If she loves you, she will wait.
couples counseling would probably be a good investment, I'm thinking. presonally i'd say it just looks like you're getting cold feet. don't do anything you'll regret.
you should only get married if you feel like she is the love of your life and you want to be with her forever. no questions asked.
i dont think people on yahooo can help you out on this one...its sort of a personall issue that you need to figure out
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Baby you will ALWAYS be attracted to other woman . Get use to it. You dont end it with who you are with if you love them.
mmm before you hurt yourself and your fiance get out of the relationship..seems like you didn't relize what love is untill you met your fiance friend...lol wish you good luck..
take your time and think carefully.
Don't get married unless you know you are in complete love.
if your not all for the marriage, dont do it
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