I have been employed and ';enslaved'; for the last 10 years (I'm 27). However, from the very beginning I have witnessed ';work drama'; no matter how menial the job. I have learned a lot from my experiences and have managed to grow from them, but I'd love to hear how other people have dealt with conflict in the work place, and learned from it.Best advice in worst situation (about work)?
When situations are happening to someone else, it is better to keep our comments to ourselves. If you made a mistake, admit it, and then learn from it. I deal with every bad experience as the step that will take me to sucess later on in life.Best advice in worst situation (about work)?
Hi, I quit a job about a year ago because of conflict at work, I just couldn't deal with a certain indivual whom I thought was a friend and I confided in that person, only to have, what I though was conservation between the two of us told to other.Now I have a new job that I love but I have also learned to keep my mouth shut about my personal life and also to listen to others with deaf ears, in other words let what people say to you about other, go in one ear and out the other.Oh, and always do your best no matter how much other may try to slack. I know this may sound like sometimes, it seem that you are doing all the work while other get the same pay as you are for goofing off, but if there is ever a lay off. Guess who will be the first to go.
In work places, it's our mouth that is normally causing all the trouble, so try to be very carefull about what you say, and if you have some personal comments on other people, keep it to your self.
If you have the option to move to another job, then it would be better, however, you have to be much more prepared for your new job.
';See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil';.
I work with a lady who has this Thing with authority! It's her way or the highway. It becomes very difficult to show my strengths when I'm told she's in control and I am her subordinate.
After many months of just about harassment I've come to the realization I'm pounding my head against the wall. So now I just do what she wants me to and say yes mam.
Don't get me wrong, I still hate it but I've put in for a lateral move and I'm just waiting for that to take place.
Good luck
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Please advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
Hi Im planning to replace my old nokia mobile and switch over to a new nokia mobile. I need a Nokia mobile with the following specifications at a normal cost 2.0Mp camera, FM,bluetooth? My budget is around 8k.Also advice if there are any other good mobile phones available in the market with the same specifications and as friendly as Nokia?Please advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
planPlease advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
Nokia 6300 , price 8K
Nokia's slogan for the 6300 is ';Simply beautiful - beautifully simple.'; The beauty comes from the sleek, classic design with stainless-steel surfaces, and the simplicity reflects the fact that this is an all-round kind of phone: not a smartphone, not 3G, but including all of the functionality that most people want. Sounds like a winner! Could Nokia finally be getting back to what it used to do best - a phone that does just what you want and does it well?
Certainly the phone looks good when you pick it up. It's like the early 6-series Nokia's: exclusive- and expensive-looking, practically designed with a good sized screen and functional keypad, yet updated for 2007 with a 5-way navigation button and high quality colour display. The size is perfect: it's very slim (just 11.7mm) and not too wide, and the weight is enough to make it feel solid and substantial, but not so much that it feels heavy. The keypad is a decent size and is easy to use. The display is exceptional: a high resolution 240 x 320 pixel display with an amazing 16 million colours. On the outside the 6300 ticks all the right boxes.
On the inside, the phone is equipped with all the features that a typical user would expect. The camera is 2 megapixels with an 8x digital zoom and with a video recording function. Enough for casual photography, but not brilliant. There's a music player and an FM radio. A standard Nokia headset is included in the sales package and support for a Bluetooth stereo headset is included. Memory for storing music is limited, with just 7.8 Mbytes of user memory, however you can expand the memory to a maximum of 2 Gbytes by buying a microSD card, which will give you as much memory as an iPod Nano. Both Bluetooth and USB connectivity are supported, and the phone has GPRS and EDGE for fast data downloads. Battery life is excellent. The user interface is a standard Series 40 interface, that Nokia users will be used to, but with the latest enhancements. It's basically a very easy phone to use, with everything well thought out and some real attention to detail.
This is our favourite Nokia phone for a long time. It really is beautiful - quality just oozes out of the phone when you pick it up. The metallic finish completes the look, although this may show scratches if not treated carefully. Ergonomics and user-friendliness are good. The strange thing is that Nokia built their reputation with phones like this, but what have they been doing these past few years with their funky but unusable fashion-phones and their buggy brick-like smartphones? Welcome back Nokia! It was worth the wait!
Still not convinced? Here's a fact: the 6300 is the only Nokia phone ever to be rated 5 stars by our users (out of 100 reviews in total). So what are you waiting for? Go buy it! You can already find some fantastic deals online for the 6300. For instance Dialaphone are offering the 6300 free at less than half-price line rental and with a choice of free gifts ranging from a free memory card to an LCD TV. You'll probably find that a deal like this works out better than upgrading on your existing contract. On Pay as you Go you can pick up the 6300 from the Carphone Warehouse for just 拢79.95, which seems like a fantastic deal for such a good phone.
Features of the Nokia 6300 include:
* 2 megapixel camera with 8x digital zoom
* Video camera (176 x 144 pixels)
* Display: TFT, 16.7 million colours, 240 x 320 pixels (2 inches)
* Music player (MP3, MP4, AAC, AAC+, eAAC+, H.263, H.264 formats)
* FM stereo radio with Visual Radio
* Integrated loudspeaker
* Voice commands and voice recording
* MP3 ringtones, 64-voice polyphonic ringtones, video ringtones
* Messaging: SMS, MMS, email, Instant messaging, Nokia Xpress audio messaging
* Push to talk
* Java games
* Personal organiser with calendar, To-do list, and notes
* Contacts (up to 1000)
* Alarm clock and countdown timer (normal and interval timer)
* Memory: 7.8 Mbytes plus microSD card slot (expandable up to 2 Gbytes)
* Connectivity: Bluetooth 2.0, USB
* Flight mode
* WAP, GPRS Class 10, EDGE
* XHTML web browser
* Vibration alert
* Triband
* Size: 106 x 43 x 12 mm
* Weight: 91g
* Talktime: 3.5 hours
* Battery standby: up to 14.5 days (350 hours)
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planPlease advice the best nokia mobile with FM, 2.0MP camera?
Nokia 6300 , price 8K
Nokia's slogan for the 6300 is ';Simply beautiful - beautifully simple.'; The beauty comes from the sleek, classic design with stainless-steel surfaces, and the simplicity reflects the fact that this is an all-round kind of phone: not a smartphone, not 3G, but including all of the functionality that most people want. Sounds like a winner! Could Nokia finally be getting back to what it used to do best - a phone that does just what you want and does it well?
Certainly the phone looks good when you pick it up. It's like the early 6-series Nokia's: exclusive- and expensive-looking, practically designed with a good sized screen and functional keypad, yet updated for 2007 with a 5-way navigation button and high quality colour display. The size is perfect: it's very slim (just 11.7mm) and not too wide, and the weight is enough to make it feel solid and substantial, but not so much that it feels heavy. The keypad is a decent size and is easy to use. The display is exceptional: a high resolution 240 x 320 pixel display with an amazing 16 million colours. On the outside the 6300 ticks all the right boxes.
On the inside, the phone is equipped with all the features that a typical user would expect. The camera is 2 megapixels with an 8x digital zoom and with a video recording function. Enough for casual photography, but not brilliant. There's a music player and an FM radio. A standard Nokia headset is included in the sales package and support for a Bluetooth stereo headset is included. Memory for storing music is limited, with just 7.8 Mbytes of user memory, however you can expand the memory to a maximum of 2 Gbytes by buying a microSD card, which will give you as much memory as an iPod Nano. Both Bluetooth and USB connectivity are supported, and the phone has GPRS and EDGE for fast data downloads. Battery life is excellent. The user interface is a standard Series 40 interface, that Nokia users will be used to, but with the latest enhancements. It's basically a very easy phone to use, with everything well thought out and some real attention to detail.
This is our favourite Nokia phone for a long time. It really is beautiful - quality just oozes out of the phone when you pick it up. The metallic finish completes the look, although this may show scratches if not treated carefully. Ergonomics and user-friendliness are good. The strange thing is that Nokia built their reputation with phones like this, but what have they been doing these past few years with their funky but unusable fashion-phones and their buggy brick-like smartphones? Welcome back Nokia! It was worth the wait!
Still not convinced? Here's a fact: the 6300 is the only Nokia phone ever to be rated 5 stars by our users (out of 100 reviews in total). So what are you waiting for? Go buy it! You can already find some fantastic deals online for the 6300. For instance Dialaphone are offering the 6300 free at less than half-price line rental and with a choice of free gifts ranging from a free memory card to an LCD TV. You'll probably find that a deal like this works out better than upgrading on your existing contract. On Pay as you Go you can pick up the 6300 from the Carphone Warehouse for just 拢79.95, which seems like a fantastic deal for such a good phone.
Features of the Nokia 6300 include:
* 2 megapixel camera with 8x digital zoom
* Video camera (176 x 144 pixels)
* Display: TFT, 16.7 million colours, 240 x 320 pixels (2 inches)
* Music player (MP3, MP4, AAC, AAC+, eAAC+, H.263, H.264 formats)
* FM stereo radio with Visual Radio
* Integrated loudspeaker
* Voice commands and voice recording
* MP3 ringtones, 64-voice polyphonic ringtones, video ringtones
* Messaging: SMS, MMS, email, Instant messaging, Nokia Xpress audio messaging
* Push to talk
* Java games
* Personal organiser with calendar, To-do list, and notes
* Contacts (up to 1000)
* Alarm clock and countdown timer (normal and interval timer)
* Memory: 7.8 Mbytes plus microSD card slot (expandable up to 2 Gbytes)
* Connectivity: Bluetooth 2.0, USB
* Flight mode
* WAP, GPRS Class 10, EDGE
* XHTML web browser
* Vibration alert
* Triband
* Size: 106 x 43 x 12 mm
* Weight: 91g
* Talktime: 3.5 hours
* Battery standby: up to 14.5 days (350 hours)
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What is the best advice for a pageant.?
Pageant videographer here.
If you do talent, please choose a performance piece that is within your current capabilities and execute it flawlessly. I have seen many contestants ruin their chances in a pageant because they took on a grand piece which they could not quite deliver. A mistake in a performance piece is very hard for you to deal with emotionally and your discomfort will show all over your face if you try to perform beyond your capabilities and screw up. Mistakes are, unfortunately, much easier to remember than success. Do something that you can do perfectly so there is nothing negative to remember. You want to look confident and truly enjoy everything you do, even if that means scaling back your ambition a bit to do so.
Good luck!
WKWhat is the best advice for a pageant.?
Do it for fun and not for the money or the title. Too many young women get hurt by not winning. Take it seriously, but not too seriously.What is the best advice for a pageant.?
Smile a lotttttttttttttttt
Be careful with your belongings, I've heard stories of girls ripping dresses and hiding shoes and all this other sneaky stuff.
dont mention saving children around the world...
If you do talent, please choose a performance piece that is within your current capabilities and execute it flawlessly. I have seen many contestants ruin their chances in a pageant because they took on a grand piece which they could not quite deliver. A mistake in a performance piece is very hard for you to deal with emotionally and your discomfort will show all over your face if you try to perform beyond your capabilities and screw up. Mistakes are, unfortunately, much easier to remember than success. Do something that you can do perfectly so there is nothing negative to remember. You want to look confident and truly enjoy everything you do, even if that means scaling back your ambition a bit to do so.
Good luck!
WKWhat is the best advice for a pageant.?
Do it for fun and not for the money or the title. Too many young women get hurt by not winning. Take it seriously, but not too seriously.What is the best advice for a pageant.?
Smile a lotttttttttttttttt
Be careful with your belongings, I've heard stories of girls ripping dresses and hiding shoes and all this other sneaky stuff.
dont mention saving children around the world...
What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
I’ve certainly had my ups and downs in life, and my life has also been very public. I’ve always managed to hold my head high, and picked myself up, dusted myself off, and found the courage to start again. Love and support from family and friends has carried me through my toughest times, and I’m interested to hear from New Zealanders about what has helped them survive the hard times in their lives.
For more details about me, read the Yahoo!Xtra Answers blog... http://nz.blogs.yahoo.com/answers/35/suz…What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
I';ve had my ups and downs but one thing i will never forget is what my mother told me ';that any day above ground is a good day';What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
Hello Suzanne and first of all congrats on winning ';Dancing With The Stars.';
Love and support from both of my parents has also helped me as well as certain songs , especially the lyrics mostly.
I've always found ';Heroes'; by David Bowie to be inspirational because eventhough in the song it states the lovers can't be together which is depressing they still have hope to carry on even if for just one day which is inspiring though their circumstances.
With every action there comes a consequence - some great and some awful, so I believe as long as you are being true to yourself with what you do, that you will always get through the ups and downs. Not all bad is negative in that, sometimes good comes from it - maybe a new direction etc - you know like lifes way of giving you a shake and saying ';take this road';
Love many, Trust few
Always paddle your own canoe
this is what my friend told me which really helped me and made me think:
';things don't always pan out how we want it or how we plan it but it these challenges or obstacles in our life's journey that god has in place for us, its not there to make our lives difficult and for it to seem impossible to live but instead these hardships, challenges, and obstacles are there to make you a stronger, better more mature and healthier person inside and out. Its one placed so you can learn from your own mistakes and grow from them into a much wiser person in the near future.';
SUZZANE ARE YOU INTERESTED IN A RESEARCH PROJECT INVOLVING STUDY OF ENTREPRENEURS IN NZ WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED A BUSINESS FAILURE - I HAVE FULL ETHICAL APPROVAL FROM THE UNIVERSITY AND CAN SEND YOU THE DETAILS OF THIS PROJECT. YOUR VIEWS CAN HELP FUTURE ENTREPRENEURS IN THIS COUNTRY.PLEASE EMAIL ME IF INTERESTED. THANKS
I don't know you, never hard of you, but if you have been knocked down and have picked yourself up then I applaud you. This is something we have all had to do in our lives. This is part of life's experience.However if you are a ';celebrity'; then don't expect any extra plaudits from me . You live your life - I'll live mine
never too young and never too old to start again. Never give up. Never say never.
';Whatever doesn't kill ya makes you stronger.';
I also have had my ups and downs, and have found the support of my family and friends the best medicine to have picked myself up and start again. Also I think the power of positive thinking and trying not to dwell on the negative is a huge healer.
My grandma's advice, when in trouble, don't sit down and weep for too long. Get up and get going, pick yourself up because no one else is going to do it for you. Once you've picked yourself up, the ones that love you see your strength and progress and it helps them to keep on supporting you too. Indeed, it is their love that gets you through these times and combined with your own strength, they make a powerful duo. Look at your future, the past doesn't define who you are today, but who you are today, will define your future.
Like yourself, I have certainly had my share of hard times. What has got me through is my love for and from my children and my love for and from my Lord Jesus.
Keep battling on and don`t look back
Up's and Down's are life's continuous happening. My advice is be cool always. If you are carried away by emotion or mental health, try to rest and go away from the situation. Walk away.
you have to take the good with the bad
I was really low and was going to turn gay , but my new partner saved me from that now I am on a high all the time
Everything is temporary,so whether it's good or bad it will soon be over. Enjoy the good moments and if it's a bad moment at least you'll know it wouldn't last.
Basically we know that most of lifes ups and then downs are results of worrying about things. I heard a statistic stating that 95% of the things that people worry about never happen. And I have heard that both the Deli lama and Jesus both said ';do not worry about tommorrow for tommorrow will have enough worries of its own.'; So basically quit worrying!
';It is not so much what happens to you in life, but how you deal with it inside your head. So much is random and out of our control and can't be changed. The way we perceive it, can.';
I was told years ago by a retired Pastor friend to NEVER make decisions when I'm feeling either too high or too low. Wait for the mood to stabilise then make the decision.
I'm bi-polar so this was of particular value for myself. But I think its great advice for everyone really.
Good luck with your research. Hope this helps.
Hi suzanne, nice to ';meet you'; lol, I am a great fan of yours, but not in a scary freakish sort of way, just of admoration :)
My life has also had its ups and downs, (without the critical public eye) My childhood wasnt easy, but Ive come through to have my life exactly how Ive wanted it through my own determination and effort, as you have.
I will be honest, I dont remember alot of the bad stuff that happened to me as a child (I was ward of the state in NZ from birth till I was 12 years old) so my bad memory has in some weird way, been a saviour, but I have always been the sort of person who looks at life as ';half full'; I look at the negative things that have happened as things that have indeed happened, and I make sure they wont happen again (to me or especially my children) I realised at an early age, that you have to make yourself happy, no one else can do that for you, and thinking positive is a state of mind that will help, where as thinking negatively will only bring you down.
Sorry to ramble, I can go on for a long time, but have pretty much given the jist of it... thanks for reading, and I wish you all the very best with your upcoming plans.
My Mum (I love her soooo much!!) has always told me that if I cant see any hope in my situation and if I have lost faith in myself then I am up the boowai without a paddle!! :-)
And the other thing that carries me through when things get tough is to always look for the good in my situation because no matter how small that good is - it will be there
I went through a messy marriage breakup (quite a while ago). My husband had been selliing off my shares without my knowledge. (He also had a girlfriend or two stashed away). I was at my lowest ebb, having just lost my dad. I still don't know where it came from but out of nowhere my sense of humour returned with a vengeance, along with my fighting spirit.
I moved out with our three children to a cheap shabby flat and somehow had the best time in my life. I found me and my kids. Also the undying support of family.
I have recently comeback again after having an aneurysm leak on the brain. Without my sense of humour and kids, I would have had half a life. Like you Suzanne I am a fighter. It's not easy but like you I have ben blessed with a wicked sense of humour. I am sure this is what has made the difference between acceptance or desperation
hey there!!! People like you Suzzanne are an inspiration to alot of people, myself included. Life isnt like a box of choccies, its like a bicycle, u just gotta get back on if u fall. Dont listen to negative advise and just be yourself, cliche i know, but it seems to be the right way. You only have urself to blame so u might as well live ur way. Keeping active helps me plenty. Going for a walk in a park or around the duck pond is good for me. I like to think of the positives and be around happy people.
Life goes on as a teacher!every day has a new lesson ...harder and you should know how to play this game to be the winner with all the things you have learned! It teaches us to know ourselves and how can we use our abilities .
To win this game we don't need anything more than ourselves!
It's me as I am and I will win as I have so many powers although I do not know them!God helps me... :)
well suzane i think you have done well i came from fiji with $2000 when i was 19 years of age got involved in car industry did very well workin for a company for five years than started my own car yard with twenty cars and after two years later opened 5 caryards with 4oo cars in a partnership which was going very well untill nz government deregulated lmvd licence our profit margins shrunk overnight still we carried on for another year or so until my business partner misused funds to import boats from usa which never exist finally i had to go through bankruptcy like you did . I always was positive with my self not anything letting me down and am still surviving which is helping me a lot and still carrying on with the same industry as a overseas buyer for other car companies and hopefully i will open another car yard of my own in the near future.
That everyone is unique in their own way. Take encouragement from family and friends they are the best support for anyone. Remember to forgive if you have been hurt by someone. This helps you to be a peaceful and loving person not an angry and bitter person. Lastly we have only one life so don't waste it, live life to the fullest being happy in what you do:)
that old standby: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
also robert fulghum's 'everything i need to know about life i learned in kindergarten' is pretty accurate, my husband and i truly believe that piece of work.
i have always told my kids ';you don't live in that person's skin, so you don't know what the truth is about what happens in their life';. in other words, don't believe gossip.
and last but not least: if you can't look at yourself in the mirror at the end of the day, then you have to make amends tomorrow!
see : )
If you always treat others as you would like them to treat you - in most instances, makes life easier - and often good things come right back to you. I think that if you treat others abysmally, so your life will reflect your rewards
I have learned to surround myself with gentleness. I avoid judemental types who usually come from ignorance or a mean spirit. I try to treat myself as if I am my own child - lovingly.
I accept the knocks as a challenge to be overcome.
I accept my inadequecies with humility and humour.
I dont try to measure up to what others achieve but what I have been given to work with. I embrace my own unique talent with joy and passion.
I try to.keep a balance in my life between work, family, friends, hobbies, health and recreation and give 100% attention to each.
I try not be dutiful but genuine with my time for others.
I try to learn from my mistakes and forgive myself (over and over again!).
For more details about me, read the Yahoo!Xtra Answers blog... http://nz.blogs.yahoo.com/answers/35/suz…What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
I';ve had my ups and downs but one thing i will never forget is what my mother told me ';that any day above ground is a good day';What’s the best advice you’ve been given about dealing with life’s ups and downs?
Hello Suzanne and first of all congrats on winning ';Dancing With The Stars.';
Love and support from both of my parents has also helped me as well as certain songs , especially the lyrics mostly.
I've always found ';Heroes'; by David Bowie to be inspirational because eventhough in the song it states the lovers can't be together which is depressing they still have hope to carry on even if for just one day which is inspiring though their circumstances.
With every action there comes a consequence - some great and some awful, so I believe as long as you are being true to yourself with what you do, that you will always get through the ups and downs. Not all bad is negative in that, sometimes good comes from it - maybe a new direction etc - you know like lifes way of giving you a shake and saying ';take this road';
Love many, Trust few
Always paddle your own canoe
this is what my friend told me which really helped me and made me think:
';things don't always pan out how we want it or how we plan it but it these challenges or obstacles in our life's journey that god has in place for us, its not there to make our lives difficult and for it to seem impossible to live but instead these hardships, challenges, and obstacles are there to make you a stronger, better more mature and healthier person inside and out. Its one placed so you can learn from your own mistakes and grow from them into a much wiser person in the near future.';
SUZZANE ARE YOU INTERESTED IN A RESEARCH PROJECT INVOLVING STUDY OF ENTREPRENEURS IN NZ WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED A BUSINESS FAILURE - I HAVE FULL ETHICAL APPROVAL FROM THE UNIVERSITY AND CAN SEND YOU THE DETAILS OF THIS PROJECT. YOUR VIEWS CAN HELP FUTURE ENTREPRENEURS IN THIS COUNTRY.PLEASE EMAIL ME IF INTERESTED. THANKS
I don't know you, never hard of you, but if you have been knocked down and have picked yourself up then I applaud you. This is something we have all had to do in our lives. This is part of life's experience.However if you are a ';celebrity'; then don't expect any extra plaudits from me . You live your life - I'll live mine
never too young and never too old to start again. Never give up. Never say never.
';Whatever doesn't kill ya makes you stronger.';
I also have had my ups and downs, and have found the support of my family and friends the best medicine to have picked myself up and start again. Also I think the power of positive thinking and trying not to dwell on the negative is a huge healer.
My grandma's advice, when in trouble, don't sit down and weep for too long. Get up and get going, pick yourself up because no one else is going to do it for you. Once you've picked yourself up, the ones that love you see your strength and progress and it helps them to keep on supporting you too. Indeed, it is their love that gets you through these times and combined with your own strength, they make a powerful duo. Look at your future, the past doesn't define who you are today, but who you are today, will define your future.
Like yourself, I have certainly had my share of hard times. What has got me through is my love for and from my children and my love for and from my Lord Jesus.
Keep battling on and don`t look back
Up's and Down's are life's continuous happening. My advice is be cool always. If you are carried away by emotion or mental health, try to rest and go away from the situation. Walk away.
you have to take the good with the bad
I was really low and was going to turn gay , but my new partner saved me from that now I am on a high all the time
Everything is temporary,so whether it's good or bad it will soon be over. Enjoy the good moments and if it's a bad moment at least you'll know it wouldn't last.
Basically we know that most of lifes ups and then downs are results of worrying about things. I heard a statistic stating that 95% of the things that people worry about never happen. And I have heard that both the Deli lama and Jesus both said ';do not worry about tommorrow for tommorrow will have enough worries of its own.'; So basically quit worrying!
';It is not so much what happens to you in life, but how you deal with it inside your head. So much is random and out of our control and can't be changed. The way we perceive it, can.';
I was told years ago by a retired Pastor friend to NEVER make decisions when I'm feeling either too high or too low. Wait for the mood to stabilise then make the decision.
I'm bi-polar so this was of particular value for myself. But I think its great advice for everyone really.
Good luck with your research. Hope this helps.
Hi suzanne, nice to ';meet you'; lol, I am a great fan of yours, but not in a scary freakish sort of way, just of admoration :)
My life has also had its ups and downs, (without the critical public eye) My childhood wasnt easy, but Ive come through to have my life exactly how Ive wanted it through my own determination and effort, as you have.
I will be honest, I dont remember alot of the bad stuff that happened to me as a child (I was ward of the state in NZ from birth till I was 12 years old) so my bad memory has in some weird way, been a saviour, but I have always been the sort of person who looks at life as ';half full'; I look at the negative things that have happened as things that have indeed happened, and I make sure they wont happen again (to me or especially my children) I realised at an early age, that you have to make yourself happy, no one else can do that for you, and thinking positive is a state of mind that will help, where as thinking negatively will only bring you down.
Sorry to ramble, I can go on for a long time, but have pretty much given the jist of it... thanks for reading, and I wish you all the very best with your upcoming plans.
My Mum (I love her soooo much!!) has always told me that if I cant see any hope in my situation and if I have lost faith in myself then I am up the boowai without a paddle!! :-)
And the other thing that carries me through when things get tough is to always look for the good in my situation because no matter how small that good is - it will be there
I went through a messy marriage breakup (quite a while ago). My husband had been selliing off my shares without my knowledge. (He also had a girlfriend or two stashed away). I was at my lowest ebb, having just lost my dad. I still don't know where it came from but out of nowhere my sense of humour returned with a vengeance, along with my fighting spirit.
I moved out with our three children to a cheap shabby flat and somehow had the best time in my life. I found me and my kids. Also the undying support of family.
I have recently comeback again after having an aneurysm leak on the brain. Without my sense of humour and kids, I would have had half a life. Like you Suzanne I am a fighter. It's not easy but like you I have ben blessed with a wicked sense of humour. I am sure this is what has made the difference between acceptance or desperation
hey there!!! People like you Suzzanne are an inspiration to alot of people, myself included. Life isnt like a box of choccies, its like a bicycle, u just gotta get back on if u fall. Dont listen to negative advise and just be yourself, cliche i know, but it seems to be the right way. You only have urself to blame so u might as well live ur way. Keeping active helps me plenty. Going for a walk in a park or around the duck pond is good for me. I like to think of the positives and be around happy people.
Life goes on as a teacher!every day has a new lesson ...harder and you should know how to play this game to be the winner with all the things you have learned! It teaches us to know ourselves and how can we use our abilities .
To win this game we don't need anything more than ourselves!
It's me as I am and I will win as I have so many powers although I do not know them!God helps me... :)
well suzane i think you have done well i came from fiji with $2000 when i was 19 years of age got involved in car industry did very well workin for a company for five years than started my own car yard with twenty cars and after two years later opened 5 caryards with 4oo cars in a partnership which was going very well untill nz government deregulated lmvd licence our profit margins shrunk overnight still we carried on for another year or so until my business partner misused funds to import boats from usa which never exist finally i had to go through bankruptcy like you did . I always was positive with my self not anything letting me down and am still surviving which is helping me a lot and still carrying on with the same industry as a overseas buyer for other car companies and hopefully i will open another car yard of my own in the near future.
That everyone is unique in their own way. Take encouragement from family and friends they are the best support for anyone. Remember to forgive if you have been hurt by someone. This helps you to be a peaceful and loving person not an angry and bitter person. Lastly we have only one life so don't waste it, live life to the fullest being happy in what you do:)
that old standby: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
also robert fulghum's 'everything i need to know about life i learned in kindergarten' is pretty accurate, my husband and i truly believe that piece of work.
i have always told my kids ';you don't live in that person's skin, so you don't know what the truth is about what happens in their life';. in other words, don't believe gossip.
and last but not least: if you can't look at yourself in the mirror at the end of the day, then you have to make amends tomorrow!
see : )
If you always treat others as you would like them to treat you - in most instances, makes life easier - and often good things come right back to you. I think that if you treat others abysmally, so your life will reflect your rewards
I have learned to surround myself with gentleness. I avoid judemental types who usually come from ignorance or a mean spirit. I try to treat myself as if I am my own child - lovingly.
I accept the knocks as a challenge to be overcome.
I accept my inadequecies with humility and humour.
I dont try to measure up to what others achieve but what I have been given to work with. I embrace my own unique talent with joy and passion.
I try to.keep a balance in my life between work, family, friends, hobbies, health and recreation and give 100% attention to each.
I try not be dutiful but genuine with my time for others.
I try to learn from my mistakes and forgive myself (over and over again!).
Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
you've ever been given?Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
Always tell the truth.Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
There will be time for worrying later
just be yourself
Always tell the truth.Whats the best piece of advice you could ever give?
There will be time for worrying later
just be yourself
Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am dating this guys for a while now. Recently, I went to his myspace and facebook. He wrote over 20 poems about a girl, he loved.
I think, she left him becuase of distance and situation; however, he seems to express strong feelings for her.
What should I do? Do you think he still love her? Should I back off?
Thank you.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I would be okay with it until we started getting into a more serious, long-lasting relationship. At that time, I would ask that he please remove them. I would feel that as long as he is publicly displaying them, he is hoping she would see them and think he still cares. At that point in your relationship, you should be able to talk this over maturely.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Wow, a guy writing 20 poems about a girl that dumped him and publicly displaying them online? Red flag!
GOD !! that's horrible !! I know what it is like been in a situation like that one ( I mean .. the guys one) well !! I will tell you something !!! if he is with you is because of something !!!!!!!! usually guys don't do anything they do not want to do, then I think he is with you because he loves you !!! maybe he still love that girl, but I seriously think he is forgetting about her, maybe its been slow, but I bet you he is, so I would not back off
you can ask him too !!!
I have been in this guy's shoes! My girlfriend at the time, put a large distance between us. It forced my to GET OVER IT%26gt;.......in my own way. It actually helped me to get the 'ex' out of my head. If you expect your relationship to go ANYWHERE while he is in that mode.....you're probably mistaken. Good luck...........Been there.
When he moves past the feelings the poems will be removed. The only reason for having them there is to attract her, so make you decision knowing you will be number two until he gives up or she comes back.
He's in a lot of pain. Maybe you can help. It sounds like he could use some friends.
there is some feelings there obviously but it depends on when hes wrote them. if he opens up to talk to you on that past listen and dont judge
I would have to agree with all the people who say ';bad news'; to this one. I could be wrong though talk to this guy and ask him how he really feels about this girl ( you never know he could have wrote these a long time ago and just never deleted them.) I would be leery and be sure to pay attention for signs of not being 100% truthfull. sounds to me like he's still in love and it might not be the best time for you.
I would talk to him and ask him if he wants some space for a while to get over her. If you care about him you just have to talk to him.
how long ago was it??
I would think he is looking to express himself...which is gr8
give it time hun...then u will see if he has passions for u
GL
Depends on timing. If this was a recent occurence, then give him some space for at least a year.
hmmm...honestly i really dont want to be blunt or mean but i think considering the senario he really loves her more. my friend is in the SAME exact situation. its really hard not to get a girl/boyfriend when your one love moves away. if this doesn't sound right in this case, cause i have no way of knowing what type of guy ur dating, ask him very slowly or hint cause if ur straight to the point he might be offended or hurt. hope this helps. : )
It sounds like he's still hung up over her. If I were in your situation, I would probably get out now before getting too attached.
give him time to get over that girl get to know him and he'll do the same who knows he might end up liking u
Back off give him time and see
Were they recently written or old school stuff? It all depends on how long ago they were written I guess. I would ask him what they were about and base my answer off of that. Obviously if he has feelings for her (and you will be able to tell when you ask) then its time to back off and just be his friend until he comes to terms with things and realizes what an awesome girl he has standing next to him waiting for something more :-)
You need to ask him. This may have been some time ago and no longer applies. It also may be that he has feelings for her... He is the only one who can answer this question.
Ask him how he feels about you, and what he sees for his future. This will give you some indication.
He's still grieving for it.
Stick around, be a friend but don't be the rebound girl.
He'll get over it and then you can see what's what.
Go for it, he's with you for a reason. The past is the past.
When were they dated? If they were posted during the span of your relationship, he's probably not over her yet. It's hard to say definitively without seeing the precise wording.
ughh honey im in the same situations, guys are hard to read..but trust me, what you want to do, is talk to him, even just start out slow, tell him you think you know what his poems are about, let him know you are their for him no matter what, become good friends, and eventually tell him you want to be more than friends, and if he doesnt want to with you its ok, but you just had to let him know incase!
I think, she left him becuase of distance and situation; however, he seems to express strong feelings for her.
What should I do? Do you think he still love her? Should I back off?
Thank you.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I would be okay with it until we started getting into a more serious, long-lasting relationship. At that time, I would ask that he please remove them. I would feel that as long as he is publicly displaying them, he is hoping she would see them and think he still cares. At that point in your relationship, you should be able to talk this over maturely.Read a guy mind. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Wow, a guy writing 20 poems about a girl that dumped him and publicly displaying them online? Red flag!
GOD !! that's horrible !! I know what it is like been in a situation like that one ( I mean .. the guys one) well !! I will tell you something !!! if he is with you is because of something !!!!!!!! usually guys don't do anything they do not want to do, then I think he is with you because he loves you !!! maybe he still love that girl, but I seriously think he is forgetting about her, maybe its been slow, but I bet you he is, so I would not back off
you can ask him too !!!
I have been in this guy's shoes! My girlfriend at the time, put a large distance between us. It forced my to GET OVER IT%26gt;.......in my own way. It actually helped me to get the 'ex' out of my head. If you expect your relationship to go ANYWHERE while he is in that mode.....you're probably mistaken. Good luck...........Been there.
When he moves past the feelings the poems will be removed. The only reason for having them there is to attract her, so make you decision knowing you will be number two until he gives up or she comes back.
He's in a lot of pain. Maybe you can help. It sounds like he could use some friends.
there is some feelings there obviously but it depends on when hes wrote them. if he opens up to talk to you on that past listen and dont judge
I would have to agree with all the people who say ';bad news'; to this one. I could be wrong though talk to this guy and ask him how he really feels about this girl ( you never know he could have wrote these a long time ago and just never deleted them.) I would be leery and be sure to pay attention for signs of not being 100% truthfull. sounds to me like he's still in love and it might not be the best time for you.
I would talk to him and ask him if he wants some space for a while to get over her. If you care about him you just have to talk to him.
how long ago was it??
I would think he is looking to express himself...which is gr8
give it time hun...then u will see if he has passions for u
GL
Depends on timing. If this was a recent occurence, then give him some space for at least a year.
hmmm...honestly i really dont want to be blunt or mean but i think considering the senario he really loves her more. my friend is in the SAME exact situation. its really hard not to get a girl/boyfriend when your one love moves away. if this doesn't sound right in this case, cause i have no way of knowing what type of guy ur dating, ask him very slowly or hint cause if ur straight to the point he might be offended or hurt. hope this helps. : )
It sounds like he's still hung up over her. If I were in your situation, I would probably get out now before getting too attached.
give him time to get over that girl get to know him and he'll do the same who knows he might end up liking u
Back off give him time and see
Were they recently written or old school stuff? It all depends on how long ago they were written I guess. I would ask him what they were about and base my answer off of that. Obviously if he has feelings for her (and you will be able to tell when you ask) then its time to back off and just be his friend until he comes to terms with things and realizes what an awesome girl he has standing next to him waiting for something more :-)
You need to ask him. This may have been some time ago and no longer applies. It also may be that he has feelings for her... He is the only one who can answer this question.
Ask him how he feels about you, and what he sees for his future. This will give you some indication.
He's still grieving for it.
Stick around, be a friend but don't be the rebound girl.
He'll get over it and then you can see what's what.
Go for it, he's with you for a reason. The past is the past.
When were they dated? If they were posted during the span of your relationship, he's probably not over her yet. It's hard to say definitively without seeing the precise wording.
ughh honey im in the same situations, guys are hard to read..but trust me, what you want to do, is talk to him, even just start out slow, tell him you think you know what his poems are about, let him know you are their for him no matter what, become good friends, and eventually tell him you want to be more than friends, and if he doesnt want to with you its ok, but you just had to let him know incase!
Writing sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Can I submit my 15-20 pages research paper as a writting sample for a job?Writing sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If your writing can be anything then yes
Best of luck =PWriting sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No. There is not an employer alive who has the time to read 20 pages of paper, and if you submit it, they will toss it. Pick out the best half page excerpt from this paper, and submit that, being sure to include a statement beforehand on what the original paper was about.
I agree with country's above. Time is important to managers.
If your writing can be anything then yes
Best of luck =PWriting sample for job. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
No. There is not an employer alive who has the time to read 20 pages of paper, and if you submit it, they will toss it. Pick out the best half page excerpt from this paper, and submit that, being sure to include a statement beforehand on what the original paper was about.
I agree with country's above. Time is important to managers.
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