Thursday, August 19, 2010

What's the best advice you can give me before living with my boyfriend?

Right now i'm living with my sister(it's been 3 years)and i been dating my boyfriend for a year.He's finacially stable and i'm finacially independant.I have my furniture but i don't want to get rid of it.What can i do?? Is it too soon to make that step?? (after a year of dating)Should i wait t ill he ask me to marry him??What's the best advice you can give me before living with my boyfriend?
I would wait. From my experience it always ends up in disaster. It's nice to have your significant other around all the time, but I'd much rather have my space, and somewhere to go in case something doesn't work out. Until you guys are sure that you're going to get married (so a few months after getting engaged), I say hold off. It's a much bigger step then people realize.What's the best advice you can give me before living with my boyfriend?
You definately should wait until you're married to live with him!! Living with him before marriage will only cause multiple problems. It really, really will. I've seen it happen.=/

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